jrizz0 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Girlfriend of 1 and ahalf years just broke up with me.. she found me flirting with other girls over skype.. this has happened on numerous occasions and she always forgives me. I love this girl to no end and i dont know why I've done the things ive done. She makes me so happy and the thought of me or her being with someine else never ever crosses my mind. I'm not asking for sympathy because i know im a douche and you all probabky think so too but I need help. She said she wants to take me out of her life forever and i dont deserve her.at all. I don't know what to do becuz i know this is the girl i wont find again.
Dusk1983 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Don't beat yourself up, it's your nature. Your brain is wired to give you a dopamine high - like being on cocaine - when you're around girls you haven't yet slept with. Coolidge effect - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia This never goes away, so the only factor is whether you love someone enough to control it. In this case, you obviously don't. Move on, have fun, and wait till you find a girl that you do.
Chi townD Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Sorry dude. But, I think you burnt too many bridges on this one. If you love her, then you'll let her go. I can understand one mistake, but this happened several times. And you've got no one to blame but yourself. You need to chalk this one up to lessons learned.
Author jrizz0 Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 It sucks that it took her dissapearing from my life to reminusce on all that she does for me. "We hurt the ones we love the most". I didn't believe in tbat quoteat all but look what I've done, i dobt deserve her, you guys are right.
pbjbear Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Good for her! She did the right thing by leaving you. That "brain on cocaine" applies to women talking to new men as well...men always conveniently leave that out (because they want to live in a world where their crappy behavior is excused but women's isnt). It is "in our nature" too ya know
Dusk1983 Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 Good for her! She did the right thing by leaving you. That "brain on cocaine" applies to women talking to new men as well...men always conveniently leave that out (because they want to live in a world where their crappy behavior is excused but women's isnt). It is "in our nature" too ya know Odd. You say you're single, yet I see you on here with a different straw man every single day.
loversquarrel Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 Good for her! She did the right thing by leaving you. That "brain on cocaine" applies to women talking to new men as well...men always conveniently leave that out (because they want to live in a world where their crappy behavior is excused but women's isnt). It is "in our nature" too ya know You are either naive or just plain ignorant. Your statement has more to do about individual characteristics rather than based on a persons sex. There are plenty of PEOPLE who want to live in a world where their crappy behavior is excused...PERIOD.
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