mwhitneyvi Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 When does it get easier to cope with the fact that the person you slept next to, loved, confided in, and thought the world of just isn't there anymore? That they don't see you as that anymore, and worse, they have someone else. Or just doesn't want you, or changed, or faked their personality the entire relationship for God knows what reason. My heart breaks more from disappointment than betrayal or any of the pain. You know.. that kind of pain where you find out your knight in shining armor turned out to be a loser in tin foil.
Loveandpeace14 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I feel the exact same way. It's a huge disappointment, and gives you such a ****ty feeling inside. It's really like losing a best friend. 2
creighton0123 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I would reword what you wrote: your heart breaks not from disappointment, but from the loss of potential. To get over it? I'll echo what others have said on here to me: find greater potential within yourself by striving to build a better you and reestablish yourself as an individual. Once you do that and let go of the attachment to your ex, you can decide whether or not you want to risk forming another emotional bond to pursue the potential of a future with them.
Mack05 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 (edited) When does it get easier to cope with the fact that the person you slept next to, loved, confided in, and thought the world of just isn't there anymore? That they don't see you as that anymore, and worse, they have someone else. Or just doesn't want you, or changed, or faked their personality the entire relationship for God knows what reason. My heart breaks more from disappointment than betrayal or any of the pain. You know.. that kind of pain where you find out your knight in shining armor turned out to be a loser in tin foil. Wait a minute.You were sleeping with a guy while you were carrying someone else's kid??? You shouldn't be angry at him. You need to hold yourself accountable for being very emotionally unhealthy, which caused you to make bad choice after bad choice.. 21 years of age. You have had already relationships with 5 or 6 bums. You then are 3 months pregnant and after all that expect to meet a knight in shining armour!? Seriously who are you kidding here? You are one of the most deluded people on this site. Until you resolve what's wrong with you. Until you stop playing the victim your mess of a life will only get messier.. You need to get to therapy and quick... Edited February 20, 2013 by Mack05
Author mwhitneyvi Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 I appreciate your honesty but I don't come here to be torn down like this. If you really believe I'm that sick, wouldn't common sense tell you that it probably isn't helping to speak to me like that? Thanks for the input, but please stop.
Mack05 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I will stop mwhitneyvi. I certainly did not go out with the intention of hurting you. It's sometimes difficult to know whether you should give 'tough' love or try a different approach. My approach here on reflection was wrong and I apologise. I assure you this won't happen again. I really hope things work out for you and the baby. Hopefully you can work closely with a professional to try ensure a happy future for you and your baby.
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