thekarmacist Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 our relationship came to a grinding halt about six months ago. i'd become disillusioned with his lack of support-he had stopped being there for me. he made a couple of feeble attemps at contact, which i ignored. i am still far too hurt and angry to have much to say. he had expressed sadness and hurt, anger and depression, but i couldn't respond. i saw him a few months ago at the post office, and told him i did not want to talk. he sent in response an angry email- he then left at my house a bag full of junk mail he'd claimed 'was important stuff' when i was not at home. i did not respond to that either. my birthday is right around the corner and i feel confident he won't acknowledge it, given my response to his anemic attempts at contact. you can be the person who ends the relationship and be in a lot of pain. i am. and i am because after a number of years together, i realised he was not the person i thought he was. he disappointed me with his selfishness, with his one-sidedness. so, i ended it, and i'm too pissed to talk. it's been six months of almost total silence. the only thing he could say to get me to consider soming back will never be said. i'm sad every day, but keep looking forward.
Soxfaninfl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 our relationship came to a grinding halt about six months ago. i'd become disillusioned with his lack of support-he had stopped being there for me. he made a couple of feeble attemps at contact, which i ignored. i am still far too hurt and angry to have much to say. he had expressed sadness and hurt, anger and depression, but i couldn't respond. i saw him a few months ago at the post office, and told him i did not want to talk. he sent in response an angry email- he then left at my house a bag full of junk mail he'd claimed 'was important stuff' when i was not at home. i did not respond to that either. my birthday is right around the corner and i feel confident he won't acknowledge it, given my response to his anemic attempts at contact. you can be the person who ends the relationship and be in a lot of pain. i am. and i am because after a number of years together, i realised he was not the person i thought he was. he disappointed me with his selfishness, with his one-sidedness. so, i ended it, and i'm too pissed to talk. it's been six months of almost total silence. the only thing he could say to get me to consider soming back will never be said. i'm sad every day, but keep looking forward. It is still a roller-coaster of emotions for me at times, and I have been apart from the love of my life for three years now. Divorced since Septeber of 2011. I have my good days and I have my bad days. I hate her somes times for the pain she caused me and our son. I guess it's harder to get over someone when you have a child with that person and have to continue to talk periodically.
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