Mack05 Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 (edited) OMG,that link Mack05 suggested on Emotional Boundaries is spot on,for me anyway. Made me feel sick reading it,I think both myself,and my ex,were perfectly described in parts.....wish I'd known about it months ago. It's got me wondering if I could've prevented the break up Yeah Debbie its a good article. It made me understand where my last ex was coming from and why she behaved they way she did. She understands the need to implement boundaries, but still has no idea as to what healthy sustainable boundaries are. It's like learning a formula off by heart, but knowing what it means or achieves. Edited February 21, 2013 by Mack05 1
na49 Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 Cheaters aren't worth your time!. If I even had the idea that someone had cheated on me, much less know it for a fact. It would be a Deal Breaker and I would never look back!. Cheating in a relationship is unacceptable. To go back to someone that you know cheated on you is in some way accepting that behavoir That person is more than likely going to cheat again because they got away with it. You should raise your standards and expect more from a partner. My backwards thinking is that there was something wrong with me. If I was better, she wouldn't have cheated. I feel like it's my fault and if I change then we can both live happily ever after. Please tell me how ridiculous that is. I need to hear it.
Author AlisaMarie Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 My backwards thinking is that there was something wrong with me. If I was better, she wouldn't have cheated. I feel like it's my fault and if I change then we can both live happily ever after. Please tell me how ridiculous that is. I need to hear it. VERY RIDICULOUS! You can't blame yourself for someone else cheating! If you were the BEST it probably still would have happened! People are so selfish... esp cheaters!
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