newsbug Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I just got a message from him Mom asking me how I was doing. I told her I was trying to be good but it was rough and I was fairly sure he had left me for another girl. (The last time I had messaged with her I told her I had no idea why he broke up with me.) I asked her how he was doing and I told her I missed him terribly. She messaged back and said she hadn't heard much from him either, which is odd since he's kind of a momma's boy, and she said she seriously didn't think it was another girl. I know it is..but I felt bad after I said that. She said she was going to do some investigating. I then asked her to please not say anything to him about what I said. I told her I was just trying to be invisible and I really didn't know for a fact what was going on. She wants us to stay friends and stay in contact, but all I want to do is tell her to shake some sense into that son of hers! I think this is breaking NC. I hate to be rude to her though...this isn't her fault. Sucks.
destroyed4sho Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 (edited) Yeah, my exes dad contacted me too...but didn't have much to say. I don't know what type of relationship you had with his mom...but she sounds like she is full of ****!! Sounds like he is freaking out about NC and he put her up to it. She said to be friends...doesn't that sound like it is what HE wants to do? She did not say anything about him wanted to reconcile with you. I would ignore her calls. Such a wimp to get his mom to do his dirty work...ughh Edited February 20, 2013 by destroyed4sho
Author newsbug Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 Yeah, my exes dad contacted me too...but didn't have much to say. I don't know what type of relationship you had with his mom...but she sounds like she is full of ****!! Sounds like he is freaking out about NC and he put her up to it. She said to be friends...doesn't that sound like it is what HE wants to do? She did not say anything about him wanted to reconcile with you. I would ignore her calls. Such a wimp to get his mom to do his dirty work...ughh No, it wasn't like that. She's mourning our relationship as well. We went from planning a wedding to him saying never mind. I don't think her getting in touch with me has anything to do with him. In fact, her saying she hasn't heard from him much makes me think he knows what he is doing is wrong and he's avoiding his family. That's the only time I would ignore my family...when I didn't want them to know what I was doing. I'm not trying to stand up for him...I just think she really just wanted to say hi and see how I was doing. We were supposed to be family and we were already acting like it even though the vows hadn't been said yet. I'm sure it's just as confusing for her as to why it's all of a sudden over. I'm sure too that she was just being a little nosy because she wanted to know what was going on and he hadn't told her that he left me for another girl. I asked her not to say anything to him about it...that I was just trying to be invisible to him. She said she wouldn't and if it was another girl then he was a chicken ****. It just sucks...he never thought about how his this would effect anyone. He just wanted to be with the other girl. She asked me to keep in touch. I dunno...I'll probably just let her make the moves and then answer messages politely. They will die down after awhile. None of this is her fault or his Dad's. I just hope when and if he brings the new girl home, they will think about what kind of character a person has that would help break up a couple that was engaged. :/
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