skings Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Hi, I have not been on this forum for a while (guess that is a good sign ). Long story short, my ex and I broke up 3 months ago and after pleading, begging, agreeing to her breadcrumbs and all I went NC since Jan 1st. I unfriended her from FB on Jan 6th and ignored a text from her which asked why I defriended her. I have been doing so good so far and today I got a friend request from her. I was surely excited for a bit but didn't accept/ignore her request yet. I kinda know she is just checking up on me but anyways would like your expert opinions as always Thanks.
Chi townD Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Obviously, you still harbor some feelings for her. If you accept her friend request the only thing you're doing is letting her feed you another breadcrumb. Remember, after the begging and pleading she STILL wanted nothing to do with you. So, why agree to what SHE wants from you now? 2
Dan08 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I was in a similar situation to yourself when I last removed my ex off fb (literally had to do it all over again the other day but that's off-topic) and she sent me a friend request shortly after which got me asking all these questions and second guessing myself. Basically mate my advice to you is to do exactly what I did in my case and don't accept it, but don't remove it either and just leave it sitting there for days and days until she gets the message plain and simple and removes it. It shows her you aren't bothered and have the power to resist her and it's in fact her who's asking all the questions like why won't you accept her request, is there someone new in your life etc. Play it cool. 1
big bear Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Block her. I accepted it second time around only to regret and block it. Funny thing this whole friends on FB thing got me so riled up, I deactivated my account (after blocking her).
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