unluckyperson Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 hi guys, im sorry. but i have just broke up with my girlfriend, and i just want to know what is, pulling at my heartstrings means ? it is something good or bad. because she wrote this and im not sure what it means
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Means you hurt her. It's a macabre meaning really. Depending on how it's used(usually good; in this case...).
Author unluckyperson Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 so you mean this pulling at my heartstrings is a good thing ? so what should i do to win her back ?
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Oh. I didn't say it was a good thing. I said depending on how it's used, in context. And that it usually(despite the meaning) can be a good thing. In this case, she is saying you hurt her(I believe.) Depending on why you brokeup, yeah...you may have a chance with her again: if she is hurting over you...might be something there.
Author unluckyperson Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 okay, we broke because i lied to her too much times and break promises, i just hope i wont mess this up if she ever give me another chance:(, i'm still waiting. we have just broken up 1 day ago, and didn't talked for 3 days from now
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 So you two haven't spoken in three days? It's not "I hope I can be different." Saying it like that is effortless. You are your mind's master. You have to control your lying. Not just hope. Force yourself to honor promises. But here's word of advice: refrain from making promises. Unless you're dead sure you can keep them. This is wisdom: to never make too many promises, if any. You have to force yourself to stop lying... How old are you? She sounds really nice...especially if she gives you another chance: she is a keeper. Don't screw it up.
Author unluckyperson Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 she have gave me to many chances,and i'm dumb i screw up. now i dont think she will give me another chance . im 18 and she is 17. but i really learnt my lesson. but why she dont want me back
Ajax Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 but i really learnt my lesson. but why she dont want me back Yeah, it's really a shame she won't just take you at your word that you won't lie to her anymore. How dare she!
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Well. You are really young. I don't exactly blame her. I was lied too so much by my ex...I'd never believe her: every word out of her mouth is bile. Anyhow....you may have to take the hit. Move on and stop lying. But who knows? She's young too...
Author unluckyperson Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 but how do you tell or see, if ur ex still want you back or maybe have a bit of chance to want you back ?
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 but how do you tell or see, if ur ex still want you back or maybe have a bit of chance to want you back ? she would still be in contact and trying to work things out, even will ask you to help work things out, not end it like this.
Author unluckyperson Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 Toddbt12y1 you go see my other post, the full story somehow.. then you may know
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