Littles Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 I have a situation where I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. My best friend told me, but I can not say that I know. My b/f best friend is her fiance and I promised her that I would not say she said anything to me. We did break up because I told him that I needed time and space to do my own thing. Now he wants to try and work on things and we have been hanging out. I know the girl he cheated with and every time he is unaccounted for, I wonder what he was doing or if he was with her. He has not told me about it and by ignoring it, I am pretty much saying it is OK and there is a huge chance he will do it again. I dream about him being with the other girl all the time. How can I bring up the topic of him cheating without letting on that I know everything that happened?
tokyo Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 Maybe you could start talking about infidelity in general and give him an opportunity to say what he thinks about it.
The_Analyzer Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 Kooky has a good point. Bring that topic up and watch his reaction. If he feels uncomfortable about the subject, then I think you'll have your answer for sure. It may be too that even if you don't want to come right out and tell him what you know, you may can just break things off with him and move on. You're already wondering what he may or may not be doing, do you really want to be in a relationship where that is on your mind? Good luck.
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