noobstar Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I met this girl when she was pregnant, and I helped her raise her daughter until she was 2. She recently moved back home where her family is, and where her baby daddy is. She said she was not seeing anyone else, but I am almost positive she is trying to work things out with her daughter's father. I do not think this is bad, per se, as our relationship had its troubles and it would probably be good for the little girl if they had a nuclear family. I guess I feel like I have a right to know whether or not this is the case as she continues to send me things about coming to visit her, pictures of her and her daughter, etc. I am no one's second choice, and if I knew I would 100% let go. I am trying to decide whether or not to contact and ask her. Any advice? What would you do?
KraftDinner Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I feel, since you are talking about visiting (thereby possibly leaving the door open to more), you absolutely have a right to know. Do you think she'd give you an honest reply?
Author noobstar Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 (edited) To be honest, I don't know. Although based on her conduct so far, I would have to lean towards no. All I really want is to know whether or not this is the case -- this would just cement my decision to not come visit and never get back with her. On the other hand, if she just needed some time alone to figure herself out, I probably would have. Edited February 19, 2013 by noobstar
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