FOX Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 I have just had a realization about persuing women. If there is a girl you are interested in and you are stressing about whether or not to ask her out, just DO IT!!! You can sit there wondering what might be or you can get and answer. If you just sit there, there is only one possibility, not going out with her. If you ask there are two posibilitys, you could be going out with her or she might say no. At least if she says no you have an answer and can move on. I think getting a no is much better than sitting wondering what might have been. MORAL OF THE STORY: JUST ASK HER OUT!!! What are everyone else's thoughts about this??
Fritz Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 Welcome to the real world Neo? Thanks Captain Obvious?
Author FOX Posted September 1, 2004 Author Posted September 1, 2004 It took a while but, im in then real world now. But seriously guy do skip a lot of chances only to be sorry about it and regret not taking them. Now that i read my own post, that is rather obvious. What ever!! lol
Kelebek Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 Hi Fox Sure, like the other guy said, this is obvious....but sometimes it's exactly what people need to hear, so thanks!! I've often tried to put that feeling into words, that "seize the day" thing but it never works, and what you said describes it perfectly!! That's how I got my boyfriend now...I simply thought, right well if I do nothing, then I definitely won't get him...but if I go for it, at least I have a 50% chance at getting him!!!! And if I don't, then so what. Big deal - I move on! It's such a great way to look at it, really takes the pressure off asking someone out! So it's not just for guys!
Papillon Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 Yes, you just have to take the red pill sometimes (If I may extrapolate on the "Neo" thing )
faux Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 Originally posted by FOX What are everyone else's thoughts about this?? I have been telling people this for quite a long time. Unfortunately, very few seem to actually listen. Some people seem to prefer getting friends in the middle of things, to further complicate the situation.
mehim Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 faux, i have a friend who looks just like u, its freaky, i think he might be ur twin, or u actually might be him. lol its so weird. and to the orgininal post, i agree u should just ask because we girls dont bite.
Author FOX Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 I have found one quote that pretty much summarizes it all up: "YOU MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU NEVER TAKE"
DerangedAngel Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Aren't you just brilliant today? Now if you can only take your own advice. -DA
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