dpc1192 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 i see her out on thursday and i'm ignoring her at the club.. she's drunk and obviously is paying attention to me and is so jealous i showed up with another girl she hates. she comes up to me a few times telling me she needs to tell me something. then she tells me how she hasn't been with anyone else at all and she was lying when she said she saw someone else because she wanted me to be jealous. we went on to talk for a bit and she was trying to hold my hand and hug me, but then goes on to say she doesn't know if we can be together in college?? everyone there said it was completely obvious she was still in love with me, and i could tell so as well.. but i dont get why the hell she won't just stop being so stubborn and let it happen instead of being so worried about being cool and not admitting her mistakes..
coltsfan1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Pride my friend, there is a reason why its one of the seven deadliest sins. Let her be proud, but when you all broke up did you tell me you wanted to stay together? If you did and she left anyways then let her be proud. She has to live with that choice not you.
calgary Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 going through the same thing.. everytime I see my ex there's new drama. some sort of excuse where we need to meet up and talk about it.. but she doesn't want a relationship it sucks
coltsfan1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Did you leave her or did she leave you? Have either of you been screwing other people since the break up?
Author dpc1192 Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 no neither of us have... she left me but i deserved it at the time, have come a long way and know how to be now.. ( if i get the chance)
pbjbear Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 You sound full of drama and like you enjoy the fact very much shes still "so in love with you"
coltsfan1 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I agree there shouldn't be so much drama, but that's the 20 yr old club life. Dpc, if she left and has told you drunk or not she wants you back then I would call her. You can ask her to a quick bite, then I would take the chance and ask her straight out if she wants to try again. If or when she says no show NO emotion, finish your dinner tell her goodnight then leave it there. ALL of it, no more calling, if you see her out you speak to her as little as possible. If she says no then you HAVE to move on!!
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