somedude81 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I hate the idea of trying to cope with being single. It's just stupid. A better use of time would be trying to fix what is hurting instead of trying to deal with the pain.
Author Sun Devil Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 The only way for me to fix what is hurting is to get a relationship. There is no substitute. Maslow's hierarchy of needs - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia It is proven that we need relationships and intimacy
outsidethebox Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 There are a ton of caring BBW's for you. If as desperate as you claim should remove some of the pickiness factor.
Author Sun Devil Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 I take care of myself by living an active life. A bbw would not work out since most fat people are fat due to their choices and lifestyle.
pteromom Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I take care of myself by living an active life. A bbw would not work out since most fat people are fat due to their choices and lifestyle. Maybe so, but don't discount the possibility that a heavier woman would be happy to leave her lifestyle behind for a man. Just as you are sitting around being sad about being single, a lot of women do as well. And some of them turn to food as a coping mechanism for their own sadness and loneliness. That doesn't mean they WANT to be that way. The more you can open your possibilities up, the better odds you'll have for success.
Author Sun Devil Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 Unfortunatly, bbw's are not interested in me. I talk to all types or girls and none of them show interest in me. I live an active lifestyle, so it is not that I am a boring person. Besides, I see guys who are very boring manage to get girls. I am starting to believe that my height of 5 feet is the only reason I am not getting any success.
outsidethebox Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 (edited) it narrows the pool down quite a bit, but there are other cultures that are short. Filipino women are very nice and short. And I know several Americans married to Filipino women. Should look into it. I would if I were you. Look at a foreign bride type website and you will see a ton of Filipino women interested in coming to US. Very nice looking ones too. I never went foreign bride route so has nothing to do with that in general, just has to do with a pool of women under 5 feet. Are you the one who does all these I can't get a date because I'm short threads? One of the things that has made it a lot easier for me to be single all these years is the number of women who rule out someone at my height of 5'7". Not that I tried real hard but the pool is narrower, no doubt. Edited February 19, 2013 by outsidethebox
Author Sun Devil Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 I looked at foreign bride websights. Many of them are scams. I do not mind dating a taller woman. Her height does not matter to me
RebelWithoutACause Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I was not happy until i got the car i wanted. I now have the car i want and am happy Works for all things on the planet, if not happy being single, then its VERY likely will be happy when not single. Most things on the planet are best understood the simple way. Unless you are planning on starting a family with your car, being in a romantic relationship and buying a mode of transportation are two slightly different things. OP, I was very single for 5 years before meeting my husband. I'm still here. Aloneness is survivable.
outsidethebox Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 First of all I have been a member of a foreign bride site for many years, just never acted on it but looked into it. AFA is not a scam. There are plenty of scams but AFA I can speak of with authority as a long time observer. Secondly, no one cares whether you don't mind dating taller women, the women care. You will need to find women near your height.
Author Sun Devil Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 I hear about too many scams from mail order brides. I also have heard that short women care more about height than tall women
ChessPieceFace Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I dont agree with this... I was not happy until i got the car i wanted. I now have the car i want and am happy Works for all things on the planet, if not happy being single, then its VERY likely will be happy when not single. No. That might be true for a lot of people. But people who post multiple, extremely negative threads about the topic, complaining about their life and hinting at suicide have emotional issues they need to address. That's why, for these people, "finding someone" isn't going to fix them, AND their constantly negative emotional state is going to preclude them finding anyone to begin with. There's a big difference between not feeling 100% fulfilled alone, and making multiple threads threatening suicide "because you are alone." A girl isn't gonna fix that unless she's your therapist. 1
outsidethebox Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 OP, I named a specific company that is not a scam. Also the same person who told you legitimate companies are a scam told you whatever nonsense you're spouting about women. You're just determined to make excuses for your situation. Don't have any sympathy for you.
Author Sun Devil Posted April 16, 2013 Author Posted April 16, 2013 It has been 2 months since this thread has been updated. In that time, I hired a dating coach who is showing me how to dress better. He takes me to night clubs to meet women. Unfortunately, I still have not found a substitute for a relationship yet and still not enjoying being single
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