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Hey guys, ill introduce myself I am Dillon, im 20 years old and I am a freshman in college.

You see me and her were going out for since 09/20/10, she ended it last night. I dont understand why she did , this is what she said. She said that she needed time. she is home and I am away, our relationship WAS PERFECT. We were the perfect couple. she told me she cant date someone she never sees.. This is killing me, i love her with all of my heart and i want nothing more then to be with her. I asked her, if you really love me you would stay with me. She said she loves me and she always will she told me to finish these last 2 months of school and when summer rolls around we can maybe pick things back up? I don't get what she wants. I can't sleep, I can't eat, and I cant stop crying. When I text her she tells me she is busy and will get back to me, but she has not yet :(

Im falling apart!

Someone please help me... do i hold on to hope? or?

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Hey guys, ill introduce myself I am Dillon, im 20 years old and I am a freshman in college.

You see me and her were going out for since 09/20/10, she ended it last night. I dont understand why she did , this is what she said. She said that she needed time. she is home and I am away, our relationship WAS PERFECT. We were the perfect couple. she told me she cant date someone she never sees.. This is killing me, i love her with all of my heart and i want nothing more then to be with her. I asked her, if you really love me you would stay with me. She said she loves me and she always will she told me to finish these last 2 months of school and when summer rolls around we can maybe pick things back up? I don't get what she wants. I can't sleep, I can't eat, and I cant stop crying. When I text her she tells me she is busy and will get back to me, but she has not yet :(

Im falling apart!

Someone please help me...

 

Take a deep breath.

 

You're still breathing right?

 

Good.

 

Although it feels like it right now, this is NOT the end of the world. She snagged you with the "hang in there, I might be back" line. That one hurts way more than a clear and concise breakup. It's low and dirty.

 

Read some of the stories here, you can rest assured that there are others here that have felt how you feel right now.

 

Go NC, it works - not to get them back, but to move forward and out of the pain you feel right now.

 

Take care.

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At this point you're trying hold onto/climb a rope that's been drenched in oil, soap, butter and bacon grease. She's cutting you loose politely. Time to get off this rope and climb your own. You are in college, enjoy the college life, if she was the one, it will happen again some day or better yet, the "one" will find you and never let you go.

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Hey guys, ill introduce myself I am Dillon, im 20 years old and I am a freshman in college.

You see me and her were going out for since 09/20/10, she ended it last night. I dont understand why she did , this is what she said. She said that she needed time. she is home and I am away, our relationship WAS PERFECT. We were the perfect couple. she told me she cant date someone she never sees.. This is killing me, i love her with all of my heart and i want nothing more then to be with her. I asked her, if you really love me you would stay with me. She said she loves me and she always will she told me to finish these last 2 months of school and when summer rolls around we can maybe pick things back up? I don't get what she wants. I can't sleep, I can't eat, and I cant stop crying. When I text her she tells me she is busy and will get back to me, but she has not yet :(

Im falling apart!

Someone please help me... do i hold on to hope? or?

 

That tells me that she's dating someone that she can see OR she has her eye on someone. Sorry, dude. And you can ask her until the cows come home, you're never gonna get the truth out of her.

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Damn cows NEVER come home! It's all their fault!

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