Echo000 Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Sometimes when I am feeling down about the stupid ex, I feel lost in the pain. To help myself, I imagine how I will look and feel months in the future after having committed to no contact. What do you guys do to feel better? Today marks day 27 of no contact
Keenly Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 I just remember one day I'll meet some one better than my ex. I look forward to it. 1
H3Drvr Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Getting myself out in the world of the living. One of the problems I have when dumped is my decreased levels of self confidence. As long as I can get myself out there and do other things to make me happy and regenerate my self confidence I know I'll run over these bad feelings like a Mac truck. Activities include getting out to the gym, plinking a few rounds at the gun range (no worries, I'm not emotionally unstable! Lol) and when weather permits...accelerated free fall school! I'm also planning to get my boat captains license and I've also begun taking android (smartphone) programming...freakin book is 3.5" thick!!!! I like to tell people that I'm Leonard Hoffstader, from Big Bang Theory, in the body of Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson! Lol I also get myself in social situations at the bar and the clubs. Just this past weekend, I met a few hotties...dare I say much hotter then my Ex.
Author Echo000 Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 all good advice..nice to think that there is someone out there who wont break your heart and who is better for you.
cdt76 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I fill myself full of rage and go boxing! Hahahah. It's the only sane thing I can do! I also pray that one day god will give me the grace to forgive these idiots for hurting me 2
New2Love4Now Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I remember this quote that I read online: “Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.” 2
AlexfromBoston Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Just hit the gym or go for a run...you will look better and feel better. This may sound weird but masturbation is key man. If you are feeling upset over the loss of your ex...go take care of yourself. Some of the pain you are experiencing may be linked, subconsciously, to a sexual desire to be with your ex.
cdt76 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Omg. That has to be the single best post of the day!!!!! So true!!!!!
todreaminblue Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I fill myself full of rage and go boxing! Hahahah. It's the only sane thing I can do! I also pray that one day god will give me the grace to forgive these idiots for hurting me i dont have to be pissed to box i like to feel the burn in my muscles when i push them ....makes me feel grounded.....i actually feel calm....when i did kick boxing my leg istn strong enough yet, its injured....but when i used to i used to increase the height of my kick that was the goal i had in mind i focused on the movement and the reptition....i dont think you are meant to box in a rage are you? thats when you get hurt just the same as fighting if you go with anger ....you will not fight as well as you would if you were calm....when i am angry or upset laughter cures that.....is that wierd?....deb
AlexfromBoston Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 It's true man. If I miss my ex, I will just jerk off, take a breath and then go out and meet my buddies for a few drinks. So essentially I cover two important bases of our relationship...A. Sex and B. the social/fun aspect of our relationship.
Author Echo000 Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 yea i been masturbating and working out a ton haha glad im not alone
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