mammasita Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Yes, I miss him. Yes, I wish every day he will realize he made a mistake and contact me. Its been about 19 days now. I am not tempted to contact him nor see him. The hardest thing though, was that I lost friends and his family through this. His sister and I worked together, so we were friends before he and I met. I miss them and I struggle with wanting to contact them to try to find out how he is and what he's doing....and if he misses me. In my heart, I know the answers, hearing the words would only set me back. My friend/his sister sent me a message last night asking how I was. It kind of threw me for a loop. I replied and asked how she was. I felt like I was a bit short and cold towards her - but Im not sure how else I can be. I asked her a couple weeks ago not bring him up after she made a comment. She understood and agreed. The problem is that I don't feel like I can really talk to her right now - eventually sure - but it has to be when I'm completely over him. She feels like we should have a friendship outside of whatever her brother and I had, and she is right. It's just hard and Im not sure how to handle it. Side note - this sister is not the sister I went out with. This is his sister through marriage. I hung out with his real sister and I didn't find it difficult to be around her (we never brought him up) as I do about talking to and being around his step sister.
calgary Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I just got a text from her brother. he wants us to get back together! It's horrible. I think it's only polite to ask how they're all doing and such right ? it's not like you're snooping or anything its just courteous ? it's not lke she'll reply with ' yeah he's bring a different girl home every night he feels fine' she'll probably just say ' yeah everybody is doing well ' break ups are horrible. I miss her family I know your pain. I miss the lifestyle I had with her.
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