unluckyperson Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 hi, please help me . I've broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago and she text me and tell me to move on, because she don't love me anymore, she said she don't want to lied to me and she said even if she love me or miss me, she will never get back with me again, because my personal and hers is not the same, she hate about me its my characteristics, i said i'll change for her but she said then that will not be me it will be somebody else. what should i do ? i really love her a lot and i really want to get her back. the reason why we broke up is because of i lied to her about going out with my friends a lot of times already. but i really learnt my lesson, i wont do it again, but its all too late. please what should i do to get her back . i'll do anything.
mammasita Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Sorry to say, there is nothing you can do. Are you listening to what she is telling you? she don't love me anymore she will never get back with me again She isn't the only woman in the world. Work on yourself and move forward.
Author unluckyperson Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 there nothing i can do ? or like a no contact thing ? or wait maybe she would come back to me ?
Love Bytes Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Sounds like she's being honest, which is rare. Take it as a learning experience and start living your life without her. I know it's hard, and it's easier said than done...but just try. Go out with friends, do stuff you couldn't do when you were dating, and just keep yourself busy. I'm guessing you're pretty young, right? If so, enjoy it...have a blast. The right girl will come one day, and you won't have to try to "change", she'll love you for you.
Author unluckyperson Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 okay i'll tried. but does this means that, 100% i can never get back with her again ? or maybe there is still a 0.01% of chances ?
destroyed4sho Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 there nothing i can do ? or like a no contact thing ? or wait maybe she would come back to me ? No, she will not come back. I am sorry. You have to accept that to move on...and what a hard thing it is to do!! I feel for you. You don't want someone that will just dump you so quickly and not try to work things out do you? Everyone makes mistakes, and if the person can't forgive or love you enough to work things out then its a lost cause. NC in getting someone back works, in my opinion, when the dumper has real love for you. She did not, her love was weak and not the same love you felt for her. Her love was not strong enough to give you another chance. Its a shock to discover this because then it feels like the relationship was uneven and a big lie.
Author unluckyperson Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 so i have to move on and stop thinking about her . it's really hard. it really drive me crazy. we have been tgt for about 2year.
Love Bytes Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 okay i'll tried. but does this means that, 100% i can never get back with her again ? or maybe there is still a 0.01% of chances ? Nobody can say for sure whether she will or not...you AND her included. However, you can't dwell on that. Treat it as if there is a 0% chance, because that is by far the most likely possibility. If I told you there was a .4% chance, would you give up on trying anything else, and hold out hope even though there's a 99.6% chance it'll never happen? Grieve, cry, be angry and upset, punch your pillow, listen to sad songs, and move on. Go out, keep yourself busy, have some fun, and reevaluate how you feel in about 3 months.
Mack05 Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 The right person will always love you and she won't ever want you to fundamentally 'change'. Sadly you are in too much pain too see this. I know its hard but please stay NC. She is not the one for you..
marklarsson Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 You have to take what she says. Text or call her, tell her, you are sorry, that you wish things could have worked out, even thank her in brief for the good times and just say you will be giving her space and just never contact her again. And actually move on domt wait for her get on with your life. as was said if her love was so strong for you she will give it a second chance
Author unluckyperson Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 i said im sorry, but she said i have say too much sorry, and it get numb. what should i said to want her back or maybe wait for her ? im so sad i cried almost every hours. i just cant live without her
destroyed4sho Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 i said im sorry, but she said i have say too much sorry, and it get numb. what should i said to want her back or maybe wait for her ? im so sad i cried almost every hours. i just cant live without her Welcome to the club. Read other peoples stories and help others on this forum. It will help you! It has helped me. You may find closure through others.
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