Ex keeps liking my fb updates

[movin it]

Ive been broken up with my ex for about 4 and a half months now, going well in getting over things and working on myself, physically and mentally.

 

we were together 3 years, We broke up on good terms partly because i became clingy and got stuck in a bit of a rut and was getting frustrated at her because she was very career focused.

Which now i can see i was clinging to her because of my own issues i had at the time.

 

I see a lot of my own problems and have been working on them. a few people have commented positively on how i have changed aswell.

 

Anyway i went no contact for about 3 months and i was feeling better about things and i emailed her just to say hi (nothing about us or the past)

I called her one night out of the blue to say hello and have a chat and she was really happy and excited to hear from me on the phone, we both laughed a lot and the i felt the spark was def still there(she even txtd me the next day to say she loved chatting and was happy we could chat) we arranged to catch up but she bailed the day before saying she wasnt in a very good state and would rather catch up when she is happier and maybe thats when she gets back from her work placement interstate in 3 months.

I didnt put pressure on her and said "yeah no probs", i have been continuing to live my life and have been on a few dates now and meeting new people.

One thing i notice now though is everytime i put a photo or a status update on face book she is allways one of the first to like it.

 

The first 3 months she never liked anything i put on fbook, i know she has been looking at my fbook though coz she let it slip while we were chatting on the phone.

 

I am still partly open to starting a fresh relationship from scratch with her if we both decided to do so, but i'm not clinging to that outcome either.

If it happens it happens.

 

I'm just wondering what you guys think of this situation? I don't know what to think of it.

 

thanks

[movin it]

Just after an outside perspective thats all.

[PogoStick]

It's weird, I got dumped, a month later she demands NC but she would still like my FB stuff. It makes no sense to me.

[JasonRules]

I've blocked them ever since they ended it. I don't want them looking at any of my photos, status updates, or knowing anything about my life. I don't call them, text them, email them, ask about them, have their number on my phone, or have anything to do with them.

 

I've given them EXACTLY what they asked for.

[movin it]

Yeah, my ex said she needed space coz she was confused and her mind was all muddled. So i gave her space and still am, i also wanted her to know i am still alive to, thats why i find it confusing she likes my fbook updates and photo's all the time.

The phone call showed me the spark is def still there, and even though we havn't caught up yet she said she still wants to stay in touch, till we can catch up when she gets back.

 

Urgh so confusing :s

[movin it]

Just an up date: i recieved a random email from her lastnight saying how things are going really well for her and asking how i'm going, what is news, and saying she just though she'd say hello.

This is the first proper contact she has initiated since we broke up.

 

Could she still be a bit interested maybe?

[thrownaway909]

maybe she is, maybe its a bread crumb. im not sure. maybe its time to let her know your intentions?

 

im in a similar situation with my ex fiancee right now. we broke up recently, and i told her not to contact me. she then proceeded to initiate contact, and flirt pretty overtly. since then she has initiated contact everyday,, asking things like who im with, flirting, etc. she mentioned she loved me and wanted a future with me when we broke up, but that she felt the distance were in right now too hard. but all of a sudden shes rearing her head again. idk if its mixed signals, a game, or she misses me. idk how to proceed.

 

for you, id say take it slow and play it cool for a little, then bring it all up with her.