joel Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Met this girl at mall and we had instant date first time and on second date she's telling me how to dress. Wear wool jacket , dress shoes , white shirt , pretty much white collar worker and not that backpack. I dress better on day 3 and she tells me she was just joking and oh u actually listened. Another time she tells me she likes cheesecake and next date I arrange cheesecake date and she says she don't want eat it since she get fat. Other time she bugs me about not having a car and 4 th I borrow one and she says she not comfortable sitting in my car since she don't know me well. Pretty much always changing her mind one day this and next week different. Is she being manipulative ,or flakey or what ????i just don't want a moody dating girl She also cares a lot about looks and style. She sees a counsellor for depressiion .she like very superficial . Never met a girl who telling how to dress on day2 and telling me to wear this jacket and it look better on me. It's all about more handsome if u wear this. She has no job for 2 years 24 lives at home.
Author joel Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 I ask her to hangout and at one time she said. Oh but I just saw u last week . Is seeing someone once a week too often . She also just want text and if u don't text often or on time she says she sad. Or gets upset .*
KathyM Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 She sounds pretty bossy and controlling, and is trying to get you to jump through hoops as some kind of game. Stop catering to her every whim and being a doormat. Don't allow women to manipulate you. They will have no respect for you if you allow them to treat you like that.
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