fabi20 Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Hi all, I wrote here a lot the last few weeks, not so much the last week or more. I had a break up three months ago now, we planned to move in to a new house in July and always talked about getting married, together 2 yrs ....long story short since I already wrote lots about it on here, he broke up with me bc he says he was not happy, and we argued too much, and that we barely shared the same interests (which i thought was crazy making) Anyway, I knew he had left me for someone else, but I didn't know who until today... Turns out he left me for someone younger, we are both 28, his new gf just turned 20 and is a close friend of his young sister (who he is really crazy over and always wanted me to have a bond with his sister which was kind of hard to do bc she's way in uni) So, I find out that they talk about marriage and it's only been three months for them and it's long distance. He is planning on moving to the same town she's living in as well....this makes me feel worse The thought he can relate more to a twenty year old second year uni student over me baffles me. We always had good conversations, always talked about things we wanted to do together, places we were going to visit and basically planning our future, and now, she's his new future? It's not a good feeling to know he could replce me all the way, to go as far as telling her he can't wait to marry her. I know, in love anything can happen, but are these two really in love?? Granted, him and I argued, but not until a year after, and it was always pety, things I know now should not even have been an issue. She seems like she thinks he's the ne and he thinks she's the one.... Also, I feel so betrayed by his sister who offered her consoling to me damn well knowing what was going on btwn her brother and her friend...even going as far as telling me her brother is not one to jumo from girl to girl so i should not worry about him being with someone new..hmmm well i feel dumb. They both get their cake, he gets to go out with someone who is close friends with his sister like he always wanted, and she gets to be close friends with her brothers gf....I feel even more cheated and betrayed Help?
jovan Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Well, do you really want to be with some1 like that?
Author fabi20 Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 I honestly don't know what to think of him anymore. It just feels worse, like an even harder punch to my stomach. I thought I drove him away with my attitude at first, he made me feel like it was all me..i did a lot to hinder our relationship. But after finding this out, i feel like it was all a lie btwn us. And why go with her? And make all these promises to her, when less than 100 days ago, we were the ones talking about marriage. I mean, i understand pl move on, but move and and replace everything so fast..like his feelings are just transfered over
iouaname Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 He thinks that his 20 year old girlfriend is going to settle down with him and get married? Honey, your ex is in for a nasty surprise. She's hardly lived - she's not going to be ready to settle down any time soon and he's going to end up kicked to the curb.
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