Plumfish06 Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 Why did we break up?????????? We had bin goin out for bout 2 months when shes says that since we really dnt c each other to much then there really is no point but she still wants to be great friends juss as when we were goin out. I called her everyday when we were goin out n she told me to call her even when we werent goin out so i do still call her but as when we were goin out she never picks up or return my calls is she really that busy or is she tryin to play me.
Pocky Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 You've only dated for two months! You can't be that emotionally attached. Find someone else.
murasaki Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 Your post isn't very easy to read. You're posting on a website, not sending a text message to your friend. Anyway, to get to your question, why keep calling someone who's blowing you off? You can't know what's going on in her head, you can only decide if you're willing to accept the present circumstances: you pining after her and calling, only to be ignored. Who needs that? And who cares why she's doing it, because the bottom line is you keep making calls that don't get answered or returned. I'd stop doing that if I were you. And you might find that if you do stop, within a week or two you'll hear from her. I'd be careful about concluding that there's hope. Some girls just like to have people calling them. If you've got a cellphone and no one ever calls (especially when your friends are around to see how many calls you get), what's the point of having the cellphone? Let her call you. More than once. Only if she seems genuinely interested in keeping in touch with you -- and demonstrates that she's going to make an effort on that front -- should you call her.
reasontosigh Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 It appears your keyboard needs to be cleaned - the "p" key is sticking.
DerangedAngel Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 Yes, please don't let it be intentional. Who are we kidding? Of course it is. -DA
snilljente Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 I thought Pocky's comment about it only being a 2 month relationship and that you can't be that emotionally attached to be somewhat harsh...I am 35, have dated alot of different people for varying periods of time and have found that it is the connection between two people that determines the emotional attachment, not the length of the relationship....in regards to her not returning your calls, you deserve better...let her wonder for a while what you are up to...I am a big advocate of getting rid of people who play games...there's enough stress in life without having to deal with people who create unnecessary drama, stress, and who aren't just upfront with each other....opinions?
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