starla33 Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Let's say you start seeing someone and they tell you they are not looking for anything serious and haven't been committed to anyone in 5-7 years, but they have no problem dating aka sleeping with a ton of people. What is wrong with this person?
blue_jay_bird Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 He's between the ages of 20-30. Thats what's wrong with him. (im bitter <3) 1
Author starla33 Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 He's between the ages of 20-30. Thats what's wrong with him. (im bitter <3) Well at the end of that spectrum...but yeah you must be right haha. I need to date older men
Estate Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Let's say you start seeing someone and they tell you they are not looking for anything serious and haven't been committed to anyone in 5-7 years, but they have no problem dating aka sleeping with a ton of people. What is wrong with this person? Nothing is "wrong" with the person. But if you WANT a relationship, he's probably not the right guy for you, just let him go.
Fatdrifter Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Let's say you start seeing someone and they tell you they are not looking for anything serious and haven't been committed to anyone in 5-7 years, but they have no problem dating aka sleeping with a ton of people. What is wrong with this person? I think it's because they find meeting people to be a ton of work and that they're afraid they're starting the "job application process" if they begin again
SmileFace Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 What kind of question is this? If something casual isn't what you want - you leave. It really isn't a red flag - it is more don't stay and try to change someone's mind kind of thing. Which so much women do then complain about being stringed along. Plus their is nothing wrong with the person - you both just want different things.
Author starla33 Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 I think it's because they find meeting people to be a ton of work and that they're afraid they're starting the "job application process" if they begin again Like I said, this person DATES a lot. So not the issue
xxoo Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 It's a green flag if you want no-strings-attached sex. If you are looking for a relationship--it's a blinking red neon sign. 2
Author starla33 Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 Define "a ton of people". Sleeping with/dating 2-3 people at the same time
Author starla33 Posted February 18, 2013 Author Posted February 18, 2013 What kind of question is this? If something casual isn't what you want - you leave. It really isn't a red flag - it is more don't stay and try to change someone's mind kind of thing. Which so much women do then complain about being stringed along. Plus their is nothing wrong with the person - you both just want different things. Nothing wrong with a person that never gets emotionally invested for years and years? To me there is something wrong, but maybe I'm alone in this.
Estate Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Nothing wrong with a person that never gets emotionally invested for years and years? To me there is something wrong, but maybe I'm alone in this. They don't want a relationship. Chances are they are young, having fun, meeting people, going out with friends... Relationships are work and you are tied to one person, there are points in life where people don't want that. eventually he will. Nothing is wrong with him.
SmileFace Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Nothing wrong with a person that never gets emotionally invested for years and years? To me there is something wrong, but maybe I'm alone in this. What does it matter what is wrong with him? What matters is that he isn't looking for the same thing as you.
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