Shall I stay or shall I go?

[lovesucker]

Me and my partner have been together for about 4 months now and we are very loved up. The only downfall I have with her is she lies a lot to me. She changes peoples names on her contact list on her phone to different numbers so that she can contact other people and she goes behind my back seeing people that she should not be seeing. She keeps promising that she will be a better girlfriend but nothing seems to change. It is killing me inside and is really messing up my head as I dont know what she wants out of our relationship. Can I please get some help from you guys. Any help would be appreciated. I just need some advice as I don't think I can go on like this. Thanks

[TigerCub]

Why put up with it?

 

Don't invest/waste any more time on someone that can't be trusted.

[skylark100]

Why put up with it?

 

Don't invest/waste any more time on someone that can't be trusted.

 

I pretty much agree. No trust, no relationship. You will find the right person. She is not the one.

[ja123]

- she lies a lot to me.

 

- It is killing me inside and is really messing up my head

 

- I don't think I can go on like this.

 

 

You are right, this type of treatment would mess up anyone's head.

 

Don't subject yourself to this.

 

Face the sadness of leaving her.

 

Face the fear of being alone.

 

And leave! NOW!

 

She's toxic, and you can't make her change or love you enough to change. She's got a serious character flaw. You deserve better!

 

Good luck!

[lovesucker]

we have had the same argument about 5-6 times within the time we have been together and every time she says she will stop lying and will change. I dont know whether to give her another chance or not. She says she wont go behind my back again and wont like again but I know its going to happen. Are there any more comments please? More advice is great. Im sweating here and I cant sleep just trying to make a decision on what to do.