HopelessRomantic76 Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Might be a little harsh but its just my natural reaction to a man who doesnt lead in a relationship and lets the women make decisions Show some balls and testosterone and run thigns and dominate like a man should or let the real men lead and take women Sorry for the rant ive just run into some meek pasive wussy men lately who expect me to set dates up or tell him where to eat arghhhhh
crude Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Be careful what you wish for, it might just come true. A man with balls and loads of testosterone just wants to pump and dump, then move on to a hotter woman. Is it THAT tough to help decide where to eat and set up a date? Sounds to me like you're a lazy, passive woman. Yuck. But since you're just laying there all passive, I'd like to dominate a woman like you, get what I want, then move on to someone with more character.
Keenly Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Seems guys can't win. You are either a controlling jerk or you're a pussy... 2
JamesM Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Show some balls and testosterone and run thigns and dominate like a man should or let the real men lead and take women Okay...I will do as you wish. 1
johan Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Reading the original post left me feeling afraid and inadequate. 2
crude Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Many men are easy going, and honestly don't care where they eat, so it stands to reason that he'd let the other person decide, because they might have strong preferences. Calling someone like that names is wrong, and it'd serve them right if they end up with a cave man instead of a civilized one. Since when did men become great planners? I always thought it was women who loved to plan parties and weddings for example. If women demand the man be a date planner, then fine, he plans and she pays. That'd change a woman's demands pretty quickly. 1
tbf Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 f I wanted a relationship between equals, I would have to switch teams and play in the all-female tournaments. I want a relationship with someone who is so different from me that I can never be what he is. I don't want to be what he is. I just want to enjoy that he wants me, and I really want to enjoy admiring him for the man that he is. I'm so fed up with the PC Cultural Dominance that has everyone demanding a 50-50 relationship, apples to apples. Any kind of equality demands measurement and comparison and constant adjustment to mandate the illusion of fairness. I don't want to keep score...I refuse to compare a man to me or me against a man ever again....I'm not going to keep on adjusting my "performance" to make it even...if I even once start giving/feeling/creating less because I was "given less" or vice versa, give more to get more, then it is just another damn transaction. What would a relationship be like for you if you just threw the illusion of equality out the window and did whatever you wanted to do with/for and yes! TO the person? but more than that, I DO wish for a man in my life who I trust to be smarter and stronger than I am. I have no idea why. I'm smart enough and strong enough to make almost anything I need to happen, happen. Along with the smarter and stronger, I'll need to know that he has my best interest at heart, as I would his. "As a guess, your perception revolves around the need for a traditional relationship, as specified in the quote from a previous thread. I do agree with you to some extent, at least in reference to the sentiments expressed in this thread. The difference would be that my perspective surrounds a man being capable of leading and making good decisions for the relationship/family, instead of needing to lead all the time aka insecure, making selfish decisions. My preference surrounds men like my husband who leads most of the time since it makes him happy, where he makes considerate decisions for our family but he's man enough to pass the ball when it's my expertise, where I too try to make considerate decisions for our family.
todreaminblue Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Might be a little harsh but its just my natural reaction to a man who doesnt lead in a relationship and lets the women make decisions Show some balls and testosterone and run thigns and dominate like a man should or let the real men lead and take women Sorry for the rant ive just run into some meek pasive wussy men lately who expect me to set dates up or tell him where to eat arghhhhh but then calling a man a pussy is an aggressive male sort of thing to say, maybe it is because you are more dominant as a female,that they naturally assume you woudl want to set the dates.....i dont call men pussies...i will call out coward yeah......its a bit demeaning..the word pussy ...implies walking vagina.......deb
Keenly Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 A man not that doesn't lead might be a pussy... but a woman who insults the man for not being exactly as she demands is a bitch. Be the bigger person and just move on. Insults are petty.
AlexDP Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 Might be a little harsh but its just my natural reaction to a man who doesnt lead in a relationship and lets the women make decisions Show some balls and testosterone and run thigns and dominate like a man should or let the real men lead and take women Sorry for the rant ive just run into some meek pasive wussy men lately who expect me to set dates up or tell him where to eat arghhhhh I have balls and testosterone. I like to set dates up and lead in a relationship. I also have no desire whatsoever to ever be anywhere remotely near you. I demand that an ocean separates us at all times.
HeavenOrHell Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I'd prefer to forget stereotypical BS and just be equal. Or we could go back to the dark ages and let women have no say in anything. Might be a little harsh but its just my natural reaction to a man who doesnt lead in a relationship and lets the women make decisions Show some balls and testosterone and run thigns and dominate like a man should or let the real men lead and take women Sorry for the rant ive just run into some meek pasive wussy men lately who expect me to set dates up or tell him where to eat arghhhhh 2
trevzilla Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Just proves that women don't really know what they want. For decades the feminist movement with the help of the law has emasculated men, and now women ask where all the real men are. Truly men should be in charge. 1
pbjbear Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 A man who doesnt lead some isnt a pussy, but he sure as hell isnt that interested in me I find laidback shyer men still take some initiative if its a girl they are really into. I made some excuses for some that they must just be shy or inexperienced when months later it turned out they just didnt like me enough
serial muse Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 Just proves that women don't really know what they want. For decades the feminist movement with the help of the law has emasculated men, and now women ask where all the real men are. Truly men should be in charge. Why is it that anecdotal data is meaningless and an outlier when a woman says she's ok with dating short guys, but when ONE woman posts a thread like this, suddenly she represents all other women forever, in perpetuity? Bah.
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