moocow Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Hi all, I appreciate you reading this post. I am feeling very confused right now and really need some advice. Okay, a long time ago (1994) I had a very loving summer with a guy who I will name 'B'. He had split from his long term girlfriend, they had two young kids at the time. At the time, I was blown away by him. He was so handsome, confident and when he began to date me, I was the envy of all the girls. He told me that he loved me but at the time I had a gut feeling that he would go back to his exgirlfriend. Afterall, they had kids and I could tell that he still had feelings for her. Well he did get back with her and I was upset at the time but moved on. I moved away and I never saw him again. Well about 3 years ago (16 years later) we became friends through facebook. We have emailed each other several times. I noticed he married his girlfriend. Anyhow, he has been asking to meet up with me for the past 3 years. Up to now, I hadn't taken his request seriously. I just thought he was just saying that out of politeness and so I used to agree to meet him but not commit to any meeting, if you catch my drift. However recently he has emailed me again and this time he pressed me to agree to a particular date. I have agreed but now I have mixed emotions. My friends don't think it is a good idea and tell me that he is only after sleeping with me. This has worried me and at the moment I am losing sleep because of it! I am not sure if he after just sex or whether he just wants to chat about old times and have a catch up. I have reread the emails he has sent me over the last 3 years and they seem innocent. In one email he is asking how my pregnancy is going (I was pregnant with my daughter at the time) and then another email he is giving me some advice about some trouble I was having at the time. So you see, the tone of his emails seem innocent and all above board. I do want to meet up with him - partly to have a good chat and it would be great to see him again. But my friends are telling me that I am stepping into danger. What do you think? Should I go? I should point out that I am single but he is married...
todreaminblue Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Hi all, I appreciate you reading this post. I am feeling very confused right now and really need some advice. Okay, a long time ago (1994) I had a very loving summer with a guy who I will name 'B'. He had split from his long term girlfriend, they had two young kids at the time. At the time, I was blown away by him. He was so handsome, confident and when he began to date me, I was the envy of all the girls. He told me that he loved me but at the time I had a gut feeling that he would go back to his exgirlfriend. Afterall, they had kids and I could tell that he still had feelings for her. Well he did get back with her and I was upset at the time but moved on. I moved away and I never saw him again. Well about 3 years ago (16 years later) we became friends through facebook. We have emailed each other several times. I noticed he married his girlfriend. Anyhow, he has been asking to meet up with me for the past 3 years. Up to now, I hadn't taken his request seriously. I just thought he was just saying that out of politeness and so I used to agree to meet him but not commit to any meeting, if you catch my drift. However recently he has emailed me again and this time he pressed me to agree to a particular date. I have agreed but now I have mixed emotions. My friends don't think it is a good idea and tell me that he is only after sleeping with me. This has worried me and at the moment I am losing sleep because of it! I am not sure if he after just sex or whether he just wants to chat about old times and have a catch up. I have reread the emails he has sent me over the last 3 years and they seem innocent. In one email he is asking how my pregnancy is going (I was pregnant with my daughter at the time) and then another email he is giving me some advice about some trouble I was having at the time. So you see, the tone of his emails seem innocent and all above board. I do want to meet up with him - partly to have a good chat and it would be great to see him again. But my friends are telling me that I am stepping into danger. What do you think? Should I go? I should point out that I am single but he is married... I think you should ask his wife is she minds and maybe meet up with the both of them then it will be innocent......you dotn put yoruself in situations where you are with an ex boyfriend who is married and taken alone together...you slept with the guy.....so unless the wife is present i heartily suggest ....nahhhhhhh...smilin...bad move without the wife present...it may b einnocent.....dont take the slight chance it wont be......deb 1
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