Jump to content

the first date with OW

MyLover

By MyLover
in The Other Man / Woman

 Share
While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

MissBee Established Member

MissBee

Posted
Posted
Yes, we're STD clean (both didn't have many partners in the past anyhow, if sneaky latent STD are to be questioned)

 

I'll rephrase: how to spend a day with someone you want to be close physically+sexually, but have only 8 straight hours in a month -- this can happen either out or inside a [long distance] relationship.

Wouldn't talk about pounding her 24/7, but asking also for ideas (more specific than just massage/cuddles/shower). What tips do you have/used and enjoyed?

Please share how you pass your time (having called me sex obsessed, I bet many of you just do nothing else but endless non stop sessions and then go your own ways?)

 

 

I still don't get what you're asking. :confused:

 

I personally have never been in a situation where I could only meet up for sex, but even still, what is there to plan? Just have foreplay and sex until someone says "NO MORE!"

 

Most of my relationships, even more casual ones, when we meet up it's not with the idea of let's go at it like rabbits and have endless sex. If I care for this person the sex session is the icing on top of a great day spent just being with them, talking, being affectionate, doing some activity. He is not required to get any extra special stamina to give me non-stop sex for 8 hours :laugh:. When I was in an A...it was LDR and we'd have weekends or some days together and it was spent just being together, doing things and sex would happen and be a part of it but required no special preparation or plans. So I really am unfamiliar with this notion.

  • Like 2
waterwoman Established Member

waterwoman

Posted
Posted

Sorry if this is off topic for you but I have to ask, why do you have a lack of love at home? Or do you mean lack of sex?

beyond Established Member

beyond

Posted
Posted
Amazing forum, I knew I will also have a laugh back reading your replies

 

She is single mother, needs a friend with benefits, met online on a site for that purpose, both monoamorous (due to lack of love at home), birth control means administered (doing it with condoms is the same as listening to music in another room through a wall)

 

I'm 30, so most probably need 1/10th of a viagra pill already (adding more bits every further year)

 

With all seriousness, will try ginseng, aerobic fitness, and other nice bits you mentioned.

 

Although my question was: how to spend a day with a woman: essentially anyone you want to be close physically+sexually, but have only 8 hours in a month -- this can happen either out or inside a [long distance] relationship.

Wouldn't talk about pounding her 24/7, but asking also for ideas (more specific than just massage/cuddles/shower)

I asked here, because we are in the same boat -- meet people for brief encounters, and then sail away for long whiles.

 

 

Thanks,

MyLover

 

'MONOAMOROUS' - this is now my new favourite word;)

fllygirl Member

fllygirl

Posted
Posted
How to spend a day with a woman? Sir, if this is your question you are in for a very difficult time.

 

Cut him some slack. He is M guy, hasn't dated lately.. LOL

  • Like 2
whichwayisup Established Member

whichwayisup

Posted
Posted
Amazing forum, I knew I will also have a laugh back reading your replies

 

She is single mother, needs a friend with benefits, met online on a site for that purpose, both monoamorous (due to lack of love at home), birth control means administered (doing it with condoms is the same as listening to music in another room through a wall)

 

I'm 30, so most probably need 1/10th of a viagra pill already (adding more bits every further year)

 

With all seriousness, will try ginseng, aerobic fitness, and other nice bits you mentioned.

 

Although my question was: how to spend a day with a woman: essentially anyone you want to be close physically+sexually, but have only 8 hours in a month -- this can happen either out or inside a [long distance] relationship.

Wouldn't talk about pounding her 24/7, but asking also for ideas (more specific than just massage/cuddles/shower)

I asked here, because we are in the same boat -- meet people for brief encounters, and then sail away for long whiles.

 

 

Thanks,

MyLover

 

At 30 you shouldn't need viagra. Especially if your trysts are gonna be eight hours a month. Just sayin'!;) And you should use condoms since you are married. If you ever give your wife an STD, never say never. Plus you really don't know this OW well. Both of you get tested. Don't just take her word. See proof!

 

I hear that making out in a Buger King parking lot, preferably as close to the drive through and the dumpster is really hot.:bunny::bunny:

 

In Canada, we call it Burger King..:p

  • Like 6
  • Author
MyLover New Member

MyLover

Posted
  • Author
Posted
Sorry if this is off topic for you but I have to ask, why do you have a lack of love at home? Or do you mean lack of sex?

 

I meant lack of making love. That's what I'd do at home. Outside home, that's called having sex

LFH Established Member

LFH

Posted
Posted
Mmm...yum... gotta love those sperm diets. And all day too!

 

Wait - do you mean her or you? :confused:

THANK GOD! I thought I was the only one that read it that was. I was like... you're gonna go on a sperm diet? Ok then...

 

I still don't get what you're asking. :confused:

 

I personally have never been in a situation where I could only meet up for sex, but even still, what is there to plan? Just have foreplay and sex until someone says "NO MORE!"

Oh my.. the only time I've ever done that was once when my husband was on leave. We were basically newlyweds the first time he was deployed. He got a weekend in Hawaii and well... we were 22. We barely made it out of the airport and there were some pulled muscles.

Ah young love. :love:

But um... that was more a natural event, we didn't plan for that.

 

 

'MONOAMOROUS' - this is now my new favourite word;)

God I'm tired but that's hilarious.

Cut him some slack. He is M guy, hasn't dated lately.. LOL

*snort*

 

Ok. Thank you. Now I'm in a great mood. :D

Realist3 Established Member

Realist3

Posted
Posted
ewwww.......you gotta be pulling our legs here, right?

 

Is it just me or is the ick factor for the men posting in this section lately, much higher than it used to be? I gotta wonder........is it real or is it memorex? :D Some of you I'm sure, are too young to know what I'm talking about, re: memorex comment.

 

No, it is not just you.

dreamingoftigers Established Member

dreamingoftigers

Posted
Posted

If you really want to give your "lover" a good time, avoid her.

 

Let her find someone who can cope with having an actual, upfront intimate relationship. So she can have a much better time than simply being your sperm deposit.

 

You are my age. It's time to grow up and find some better coping skills than a high school boy.

 

Perhaps peruse some more threads on the disaster you are about to embark on because you lack the courage to stand your ground for your own needs in your relationship.

 

I hope that you don't have children.

  • Like 2
ThatJustHappened Established Member

ThatJustHappened

Posted
Posted
Hello,

 

My first date is approaching. We are crazy for one another, and both can't wait. I will spend the whole day with her.

 

How can I prepare for it? In terms of abstaining, and exercising? To get us going all day.

 

Surely I will keep to a nice sperm diet etc, but being with her for hours might leave me breathless (a spooning positions might come in handy, as both physically do not exhaust too much)

 

I want to make a day to remember.. any tips? Or more questions what I didn't reveal?

This is my first post :) so trying to break the ice here folks ;)

 

 

MyLover

 

You're 30 and you don't know how to have sex?!?

Furious Established Member

Furious

Posted
Posted
thank god there wasn't another "g" in the word "buger" :laugh::laugh::laugh:

 

( that would have been a whole different type of thread)

 

Buger....that's how my friends in Jersey pronounce it. :D

  • Like 1
neveragain34 Established Member

neveragain34

Posted
Posted

From what I've read, you are clearly lacking in the sex skills department; perhaps this is why your wife won't have sex with you. Instead of having an affair, maybe you can try a couples sex class with your wife or find some videos related to this.

  • Like 1
SidLyon Established Member

SidLyon

Posted
Posted
Buger....that's how my friends in Jersey pronounce it. :D

 

Ah accents!

 

That's something that comes out of a nose here.

  • Like 1
veryhappy Established Member

veryhappy

Posted
Posted

Wow she has found herself a treasure.

 

If sex with a condom is bad, you are having sex with a person you shouldn't be having sex with.

 

Let's see...is your wife pregnant or has she recently had a baby?

 

It's the role of the other woman to take insecure, troubled you and turn it into a confident, satisfied man. Then you forget all about it, but never mind. Just sleep the night before and shower. Be rested and clean. That's all. Don't expect all 8 hours to be about sex. Maybe you can have intercourse twice. If a woman doesn't perform for a living, her vagina can only go so far.

 

You are an irresponsible husband and likely a terrible AP, but that's besides the point. Good luck to this woman who barely knows you and will have unprotrcted sex with you. Good luck to your wife too because you seem to be diving into affairs as a hobby.

  • Like 2
Gagirl Established Member

Gagirl

Posted
Posted

This tread proves it's just all about sex when MM cheat and nothing more. Hopefully many OW will read this and decide to bail on their MM.

Realist3 Established Member

Realist3

Posted
Posted
This tread proves it's just all about sex when MM cheat and nothing more. Hopefully many OW will read this and decide to bail on their MM.

 

Hallelujah!!!!!!! This one thread on one message board proves absolutely... nothing.

Lillyfree Established Member

Lillyfree

Posted
Posted

*cue 'eye of the tiger' and OP punching the air rocky balboa style*

summerdowling87 Established Member

summerdowling87

Posted
Posted

Squeeze your a$$ cheeks really really tight while sticking that mushroom tip in.

 

hodgetwins from youtube

Summer Breeze Established Member

Summer Breeze

Posted
Posted
Hello,

 

My first date is approaching. We are crazy for one another, and both can't wait. I will spend the whole day with her.

 

How can I prepare for it? In terms of abstaining, and exercising? To get us going all day.

 

Surely I will keep to a nice sperm diet etc, but being with her for hours might leave me breathless (a spooning positions might come in handy, as both physically do not exhaust too much)

 

I want to make a day to remember.. any tips? Or more questions what I didn't reveal?

This is my first post :) so trying to break the ice here folks ;)

 

 

MyLover

 

Show up being this charming and cuddly. I'm sure she won't be able to resist you. I sure hope she's being as concerned about how she should prepare too. Good luck you wild and crazy kids.

 

:o

thefooloftheyear Established Member

thefooloftheyear

Posted
Posted

Where is the BS(Im talking about the stuff you find around the stables-not the spouse) flag? Timie to raise it here....

 

I think the whole thing is just a goof...At least I would hope so, for the sake of humanity...

 

YFOY

  • Author
MyLover New Member

MyLover

Posted
  • Author
Posted

Has anyone read the rules of this forum, before ranting?

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/other-man-woman/325385-support-discussion-defined

 

<...>

What is discussion?

 

In keeping with the second purpose of this forum, discussion, members are able to post threads specifically for discussion purposes. This includes what might seem nonsensical to members who do not advocate affairs such as “I just had a fabulous vacation with MM” or “This is the best relationship I’ve ever had”.

 

Discussion allows exchange where specific questions are not necessary. It provides a gathering place for those who are in similar situations to have a conversation about their relationships. It is inappropriate to challenge any member’s intent or value simply because they post a thread for discussion in this forum. Not every member that comes here feels they are in need of assistance. Some would simply like to find a place to discuss their relationships with others who can relate. This is appropriate in this forum.

 

Thank you,

MyLover

William Established Member

William

Posted
Posted

Closed by moderation for processing of conformance to guidelines.

While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!
Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.
 Share
Go to topic listing
×
×
  • Create New...