unluckyperson Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I've just broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago and we have been together for about a year, she tells me to give her a week to think about getting back together with me again. Dose this means that we will never get back together ? because i lied to her many times about going out with my friends and jealous and sensitive about her talking or handing out with guy, and she did give me a lot of chances but i misused it. I didn't cheat on her or contact any girls when i'm with her. what do i have to do to win her back ? dose this means that we will never get back together again ? i really missed her a lot
KatZee Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I think instead of focusing on how to get your ex back, you should focus on yourself and figure out why you feel the need to constantly lie. That's a huge character flaw right there.
Author unluckyperson Posted February 17, 2013 Author Posted February 17, 2013 i lied to her it's because i scare she wont let me go out with my friends. but i was wrong, i should have told her first or just leave my friends behind and listen to my girlfriend
Njeanne Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 You didn't trust her? Did she give signs that she wouldn't like you hanging out with your friends? If so, then communication is the best thing you can do. Lying won't get you anywhere and you can see where it has lead you two now, I am not sure if she will trust you 100% again, so while you are broken up the best thing you can do is leave her alone and you heal up and learn from your mistakes. I wrote this somewhere else --> no trust = no relationship Also, a good relationship is build on space aswell. you need to fifty spend time with her and fifty with your friends, never have someone take control in a relationship. If my boyfriend wouldn't let me go out see my girls as much as once a week then well sorry but...I don't wanna loose my friends for one person, that's why I gave my boyfriend all the space he could have but that let him in his feelings changing. :'(
Author unluckyperson Posted February 17, 2013 Author Posted February 17, 2013 i tried to follow your advice , but she seem really angry at me now, because i texts her friend about saying how my girlfriend is right now like is she doing well and is she with you, because i'm worried about her, and she is very pissed off at me for telling or contacting her friend because of our relationship problem. dose this means that the percentage of us getting back together will be very litter ?
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