luckster Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 Okay, so ive been dating this guy for three weeks....we've been out together about once a week. He has never been great about calling. We dont talk on the phone much though. We always have a great time on our dates, and always find out so much we have in common. ...So on our last date(friday) we had a great time, he asked me if i had plans the next day and to call him. On our date, he kept mentioning places we should go in the future. So on saturday I called him, we talked and he asked me what time i had to be at work on sunday(I said 4am)(it was 7 pm on sat at this point) SO then he said, well i dont want to drag you out here if you have to be at work so early(i have an hour 1/2 drive to work)but if you go out tonight, give me a call and we'll meet up. and so I said well would you want to do something tomorrow (sun) He said yeah tomorrow would be good...but I am going to go to bed early(he starts law school monday, its very intense, and he is a studyaholic) but call me. He also said we should go out next weekend and then said "but I'll probably have to study, however, i am going to try and not study on firiday and saturdays" So on sunday, I called him around 5 ...he didnt answer(he never answeres when I call...he always calls back)and its now tuesday morning and he hasn't called. Im thinking he may have had a lot of studying on mon. Should I call him tonight and ask him how school is going or wait....Maybe he never got my voicemail on sunday. Do you think hes lost interest? I can't imagine he has with all the mention of future things he wants to do.
Girlie Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 He's starting law school and he's thinking he's not going to study on Fridays and Saturdays. LOL. Tell him good luck with that. Just kidding. Seriously though, if he's starting school, he's going to be very, very busy. Law school is a b!tch. I say that from experience. So go ahead and call again, and just ask him how he's doing. No harm in that.
chicasha Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 maybe he hasn't lost interest in u.....but maybe he might just want to be friends for now. i dunno. everytime i've seen a guy take an interest in me...then something happens in his life (like going to school, a new job, personal issues...or some other life changing event)...the usually give the 'i like u, but only as a friend...i'm just in the dating mode right now, i can't committ to anything at this point' speech. i hate that....i just got that speech over the wknd from a guy i really like :-( sux, eh? hopefully thats not ur case...give him a call and see whats up...
luckster Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 So Girlie How often did you have to study? They told him an extra 60 hours out of school. So calling him a second time wouldn't be to bothersome??
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