JourneyLady Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Situation is this. There was a local guy in a group I participated in, particularly during times of various breakups with my now ex-bf. He moved away to another state, but we are friends in a social forum. He recently confided that he regrets not having asked me out during the times I was in a break-up. I asked him why he hesitated, but have received no reply, yet he still "likes" my photos and is apparently paying attention to what I post. I have been away from ex-bf for several months now, and ex-bf is in another state, so he knows this. But he never posts anything personal to me or comments on what I have posted, nor has initiated email contact or anything of that sort. He is not in a relationship at this time. I know he is the kind of guy I am looking for since I wised up a lot about who is and who is not eligible as partner material. But it's a bit frustrating to feel that he is holding back on the truth. I'm about to start dating again and want to know if he should be on the radar or not. I'm not getting any clues from him whatsoever other than that one confession. I guess I feel that if he doesn't tell me more, then probably he has given up on us ever dating and I should too. But it feels kind of like someone opening up a candy box and setting it out where you can see it, but not saying you can have any! I'm definitely not a 10, so I don't think that's the problem. More like a six, but maybe an 8 if I continue to lose weight - if we're just talking appearances. I dislike games. His making a confession like that and just going silent feels too much like a game. Especially as my question after that wasn't answered.
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