zantiii Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Im 28 and my ex is 24. We got married sept 1 and built a house together a year ago and was complete by august and we dated for 6 years before getting married. Everything has been great except in the last two months money has been tight because im a contractor and she lost her job. So we were both home alot and were not patient with each other and rude at times to each other. She never had friends ever and always was with me 80% of the time in the last 6 years. When she lost her job i noticed she became depressed and was goin crazy always bored. I tried to keep us busy with little money, one night she went out with 2guys n a girlfriend to hang out. She didnt even come home or call me to tell me. The very next day i picked her up and all she said was she was tired and didnt feel like goin all the way home, so i let it slide and didnt care. A week later she did it again except she ignored my phone calls and msgs, she came home this time but at 4am drunk and making noise I woke up and she n i fought she played dumb with my qeustions and told me go back to sleep and i walked in the other room to sleep and she started mouthing off at me and i told her leave the house if you dont respect me so she left. 3 months ago she broke her finger punching me cause i threw her laptop on the ground cause she was being rude and i lost my cool. We made up and i helped her out with the finger. We also fought about her nights drunk and i asked whats goin on ur changing in a odd way, i asked do like being single and she said yes and i asked i would like to have children in 2years if life goes well she said no i want them in 5years, i was really thrown off and she kept crying about having a carrier and i said well why not both. I never pressured her but the answers confused me on who she was anymore. Those are only major moments ever in our relationship.When went down to her family for xmas she was acting weird and on the way back she started blamin me for everything and sayin im extremely rude and dont make her feel safe, i was shocked and said okay ill change but you need to make efforts as well. 10 after that we were perfect and she went off to a interview and missed it and i couldnt pick her up cause of money i drive a huge truck. Then 6 hrs later she came home with her retired cop dad and picked up her stuff and never saw her again. Its been a month since and she is trying to take the house and lied to the police about the finger and i spent a day in jail and now had to get a lauryer for something i didnt do. I have accepted the thought of moving on cause i feel she doesnt seem to appreciate me anymore or care esp after putting me in jail. * * *
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