garydee Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I have been reading this forum for sometime and it seems to be full of men who think they are destined to have a sexless life. The thing is though its actually pretty easy to get women. I am not particularly handsome (or at all come to think of it) but on a night out at bars and clubs I have plenty of women approach me. If you give plenty of women a bit of friendly acknowledgement many of them will later go on to approach you, a simple smile saying hello or asking them how their evening is going is all it takes. If you guys focus your efforts on these women you might actually get somewhere. That is all for now.
Esoteric Elf Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 You're right! Damn it all, what have I been missing? By saying it is "pretty easy to get women", you disparage men who have not obtained any and women for being treated like something you can pick up, and, should you tire of it, toss it away and pick up another without aforethought or hesitation. 1
trevzilla Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 (edited) depends, Vancouver has a very aloof culture and women seem to be very mistrustful of men, so it's very hard to get an in unless you are introduced by a mutual friend. All my positive experiences have been with women from elsewhere, a Korean, a Polish woman, French Canadian girls. It was easy with them because they were open and flirty. I've never gotten a date from women I've asked out in public places. Guys I know from other places comment about it too. An Israeli guy I work with was like wtf, they smile at me so I stop and talk to them and they freak out? I'm pretty sure I'm going to move within a year, once I get two years of IT experience under my belt and can easily land a job elsewhere. Culture can be huge. I was talking to my French barber today and he commented on how cold the culture was here and how when he was in France recently a beautiful French woman squished in between him and his friend on a crowded park bench. That would never happen here, people always spread out as much as possible and generally don't make eye contact or strike up conversations with strangers. It's a very lonely city. Plus it's a very west coast culture and I'm pretty conservative, so that's another knock against me. Fortunately I work for a company with an amazing culture and people hang out together and organize outings all the time. If not for that, I'd be home alone most of the time. The majority of staff are from other Canadian cities or foreign, so that's probably why we have the culture we do. Edited February 22, 2013 by trevzilla
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