Guildford Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 This question is for all the husbands and wives out there. How much time passed between when you first met your spouse and when you decided that you wanted to marry him or her? I believe that women come to this conclusion much faster than men. I am told that my mother decided that she was going to marry my father the night they met (I believe that it was a blind date). My wife once mentioned that she decided when we met that “he’s the one.” We talked for about an hour when we first met. She did not elaborate on what she meant by “he’s the one.”
sunshinegirl Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 We met in June but didn't start dating til the end of October. By the second week of November, I was (secretly) starting to write my wedding invitation list. As trite as it sounds, I really can't explain better than I just "knew." We were engaged five months later and married about a year after we started dating. 1
Silly_Girl Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 My fiancée said he'd never thought 'she might be The One' before, but was thinking it driving back from our first date. I knew it was going to be a permanent thing around 3 months in (we saw each other most days at that stage). We got engaged after 6 months of dating, but we're mid-thirties and both feel strongly we knew what we wanted and didn't want to wait. 2
Nyla Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 I knew that I wanted to marry my husband after six months. Of course, I didn't tell him this. We were engaged after nearly two years together. 1
BetheButterfly Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 This question is for all the husbands and wives out there. How much time passed between when you first met your spouse and when you decided that you wanted to marry him or her? I believe that women come to this conclusion much faster than men. I am told that my mother decided that she was going to marry my father the night they met (I believe that it was a blind date). My wife once mentioned that she decided when we met that “he’s the one.” We talked for about an hour when we first met. She did not elaborate on what she meant by “he’s the one.” My husband and I first talked on the phone Feb. 7th two years ago. We lived in different states. We met in person at the end of May and we knew for sure that God brought us together in July. We married in September. It was a very natural process, and our love is a journey that we make together! It didn't take us long but I think one reason is because we are both 35 and have both experienced having relationships with people who were not really "the one." We learned from those relationships and we both decided what we want in our mate, and we are so thankful to have found each other!!! My parents got married when they were both 18, and it took my Dad a longer time to realize Mom is "the one" for him. My Mom knew right away.
scatterd Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 We both new were in love and wanted to spend our life together 3 months into the relationship We met just before valentinesday and married in June. We have been Married 20 years. Sounds to fast but it has worked out better then the one I waited 5 yrs. for. 1
Lauriebell82 Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 We fell in love within a month of getting together and did anything and everything to be together..we took turns driving back and forth to visit each other on the weekends..we did that for two years. Even though it would take another 4 years to get married (from when we started dating), I believe that we both knew that we were going to be together forever right away. 1
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