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My boyfriend's lost interest and I think he's looking elsewhere?


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I love my boyfriend and I trust him, but lately he seems more interested in guitars than me? He used to be a sex addict and had had sex with over 60 women before me. Not shocking? HE'S 16. But all of a sudden, he just doesn't want to know. Have I done something wrong? I feel like the spark has gone completely, but the only times he seems really up for it is when I offer to do anal because it's his fettish, which he KNOW'S I don't like and he KNOW'S it hurts me, but I do it anyway because I love him. I don't feel like I should be having to put my body through physical agony just to spark some interest from him. We've only been together 4 months, the relationship is still young, I know, but already I feel like it's crumbling apart !! He's been talking to his exes too and won't show me ALL of the messages, ONLY the ones that the exes send him saying "I still love you!" or "Dump your girlfriend and be with me!" or "Let's meet up for sex!"

PLEASE help me!

I give him plenty of space, we have a laugh together, we play guitar together, he even made me one for valentine's day ! He's the most wonderful, talented, sweet and lovely guy in the world and I feel like I'm not good enough for him anymore?

He's my beautiful boy and I don't want to lose him :(

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O.o.........................

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Have you tried lube?

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I'm assuming you're both the same age? Anal at 16...really??? Wow. Anyway take a break from your bf because he obviously doesnt seems worried about you. You're young you have plenty of time to find the right guy. If a guy doesnt respect you he will treat you like dirt and believe me if you let him well there is no way that will stop.

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