msalek89 Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 (edited) So my ex text me like at 11:30pm telling me that he transfered me this money that he owed me. I replying saying “thanks dude” and he said “noproblem my love” with a kissy smiley. We have been in NC for 2 weeks. The first week he text me on a Sunday night like at 1am asking if I was awake, I didn’t bother to answer. We broke up almost 2 months ago and for a whole month I begged him to be with me again. First, he ignored me completely. Then I went to look for him to try one more time and he wouldn't give me any closure so I took that as him wanting to do his own thing and I finally decided to move on. Afterseeing that I didn’t reply to his text, he starts calling me funny names that we used to call each other when we were going out. I decided to follow along and then he’s like “okay don’t get excited”. I didn’t text him back. After a few minutes he sends me a picture of this view of downtown from this condo saying “like the view?”. I mean how would you take that? I took it the bad way of course. It bothered me because it got me thinking who is he with and what is he doing. I mean I don’t know if his point was to be nice or whatever but I don’t think that’s the way to do it. I am home going nuts so I decided to send him a small videoclip from a nigh that I went out. The video was me really close to the DJbooth. I sent it to him saying “lovely view, but mine is better”. He replied saying “ummm no not really, but have fun goodnight” and I said “likewise”. Did I do the right thing by doing that? Honestly, all my hopes of him and I going back out are gone that’s why I decided to start NC. It just really bothered me when he sent me that picture. Him texting me kills my peace of mind. How would of you reacted if your ex sent you something like that? Thanks everyone. Edited February 17, 2013 by msalek89
radinna82 Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Well, me being the vengeful, smart-ass type, I say good job. I wouldve done the same. But at the same time, maybe you guys should talk about it. Maybe he is telling you its a great view for the both of you to enjoy;). Something to think about. If you care for him and want to be with him...go for it.
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