miklos Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I broke no contact today. It has been 23 days of NC. I just called him and texted him. He ignored me. He forwarded my call twice. He broke up with me. I miss him a lot. I hate this feeling. One more text message telling him how i feel and then NC again
BarbecueMan666 Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I got a good stern talking to by my dad today, I broke NC and kind of gave out the tendril that "I want closure". Was kind of a pathetic message actually looking back on it and I feel embarrassed. Luckily I called my father and spoke to him, told him everything (this is 6 weeks after the BU, and she's doing very well by the looks of it) - He just told me "Son, you're pathetic" - he didn't say it in a horrible way, just like you know, was blunt. I felt like gosh darn it - this is how I'm going to appear. Luckily I realized, I don't really care how I appear to this woman as much anymore. We're not going to be together, and my father opened up to me today to say, if me and her ever got married, he already decided he would never attend the wedding, lol. I told him everything, and for 3 hours he diagnosed everything and pointed at how much of a manipulator and horrible person she was, while she had nice traits obviously, she was a climber and would do anything for herself. I just got absorbed in it, I was the focus of her attention for a while. Anyhow - I recommend you don't overthink this too much, and get someone to talk to that can tell it to you straight. What you have is love goggles - and what you need is someone to remind you, "Hey, this person was not perfect for you in the slightest" - and reel them off 1 by 1, Situation by situation. You're going to be fine, it's gonna suck - but you have to go through with it. 3
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