racer120 Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I tend to see most things I do in a negative light. For example. I am head of the human resources department of a company of 50, but with my law degree it feels inferior, while I know it isn't and it is wrong to have this sentiment. Inferiority and feelings of superiority are only in the mind. Also, I am hugely embarrased to admit I have never had a girlfriend at age 24. When a girl asks me why I don't have a girlfriend (let alone why I didn't ever have one) I completely 'collapse' with shame. There used to be a time when I was less hard for myself and that I really enjoyed life more as a consequence. Could you help me with this? Especially with that question regarding girlfriend.
Mr Scorpio Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Trying focusing on the fact that you're only twenty-four and you've already completed law-school and started your career. You are several years ahead of your peers. As for your question regarding a girlfriend, you didn't ask one.
Author racer120 Posted February 17, 2013 Author Posted February 17, 2013 Trying focusing on the fact that you're only twenty-four and you've already completed law-school and started your career. You are several years ahead of your peers. As for your question regarding a girlfriend, you didn't ask one. how can I explain to a girl I date that I didn't have a girlfriend before, without feeling bad about myself.
TaraMaiden Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 By realising that we all have a first time, and that some 27-year-olds may be in the same boat. You might like to consider a therapist to discuss self-esteem issues. How long has this been going on? Why? What triggered it? Find the cause, because this is just the symptom....
aMguilts Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 how can I explain to a girl I date that I didn't have a girlfriend before, without feeling bad about myself. you don`t have to explain anything take her out, wine and dine her then the best thing YOU can do is walk away!!!! A date doesn`t HAVE to end up in BED She`ll respect you more for NOT trying to get into her knickers aM
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