ehh Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 All my life I was taught to give to others who are less fortuniate. I have had many of friends that were of the opposite sex, female. Not a single one did I ever cross that boundry. My friend was my friend and not a target. I learn from my mistakes from each relationship top the next. This one time I crossed the line of friend to lover. She felt the same way but one small problem, she's involved and I do not want to be a reason for their demise. He beats her and has even given her a concusion. I cant stop it, but she keeps coming to me for companionship. I ve held my tongue long enough and told her I was in love with her. She went back to him. I hurt like nothing else in my life. I have lost my wife and daughter in a divorce and I never felt this way. I keep kidding myself and say it just wasnt meant. But my heart keeps worring about her. Ive started drinking recently and find I SLEEP a couple of hours. Everyone asked us if we were a couple cause we got along sooooooo well. I am confused and literally at a loss.
Jono85 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 lose the captain save a *** mentality. go find a nice stable girl who has this thing called self-esteem. she will appreciate you.
radinna82 Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I feel you. Had the perfect girl until she left for her abusive ex. Made me feel really small. People tell me I should be an ******* to women and theyll never leave but its just not in me. I wish I could offer some advie but Im in the same boat and dont know what to do. Nice guys truly do finish last
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