UnluckyNiceGuy Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Hello everyone, I'm new to the forums. Didn't know where else to ask for help regarding this subject, and found you guys here! Anyways, the story goes: So last year around this time, we broke up for the last time. After a year of a very passionate relationship, it seemed everything was going well. Over the Christmas holidays she flew back to her home country to visit her family for the holidays. Everything seemed great. She came back after three weeks, and BOOM, things were over. We kind of got back together and broke up a few more times, and eventually about a year ago, maybe a few days after Valentine's, it was truly over and done. Since then, we met up for coffee about a month later (in retrospect, a bad idea), and had a brief conversation (very brief, and complete small talk) around September over facebook (at the time we were no longer facebook friends). So After the New Year, she sends me a message "How are you?" and asks to be friends on facebook again. A little bewildered after all this time in NC-mode, I accepted her request and we exchanged a few messages. Again, nothing deep or personal. So then last week, on Friday, at 7:30 pm, I get a message from her on facebook, on her mobile. "Hey, how was your week?" So again after some small talk she says "I'm so glad you messaged me back", which I found to be a strange response. She then asked me for my phone number again and then asked me if I was free the coming weekend, and after saying I was, she asked me if I wanted to have dinner. Even stranger still, when I asked her what she wanted to eat she replied "the salmon you used to cook? lol". Thoroughly confused, I agreed and we set a time. Even more mind-boggling, she ended the conversation by saying "See you Sunday, sweetie!". Huh? Weird. The problem is, of course, that I still love her. Consider me utterly confused. Anyways, the next day, she texted me to say she had thrown her back out really badly and couldn't even get up and that she wouldn't be able to see me. I told her to rest, and that we'd try again some other time. Texted her on Sunday to see how her back was doing. So my question is, what the heck is going on? I realize that people often get in touch with exes when they've recently gone through a break-up, or are lonely or whatnot. Any ideas on what's going through her mind? Any advice? Thanks in advance
salem mark Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 she thru back out, i don think so, she probably reconsidered and decided not to meet u, sorry
Author UnluckyNiceGuy Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 I should probably add that we're meeting up today.
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