Chloe1980 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Please, can anyone help me clarifying what is NC? Is it no writing/texting/calling? Or is it also not looking for him on Facebook etc..? not re reading his emails? Not looking at his pictures? What should I do, please???!!
Addison312 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Go in the Coping forum and it's pinned at the top.
TaraMaiden Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Thank you iouaname Took the words right outta my mouth!! Chloe 1980 iouaname has thoughtfully provided the link to the NC Guide. but yes, basically everything you asked about in your post, you block, delete, ignore, refrain, desist and shut down. All of it. Everything. no exception. you TOTALLY fall off his radar and 'cease to exist' and you have to make sure the same thing happens with him. Even if it's you who has to MAKE it happen. No exception, no time limit, no ulterior motive. Go No Contact to move on, heal and begin your life again from............. ..........NOW.
Author Chloe1980 Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 thank you all, appreciate it. My only concern is that he will receive an stds results next week, and I asked him to please let me know. Im not sure he will (given the cirumstances ) but I do still need to have a communication channel until that may happen. Or not, I just dont know what to do...
LostGirl11 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 thank you all, appreciate it. My only concern is that he will receive an stds results next week, and I asked him to please let me know. Im not sure he will (given the cirumstances ) but I do still need to have a communication channel until that may happen. Or not, I just dont know what to do... No you don't. Just go and get yourself checked out. Simple. 2
Author Chloe1980 Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 thank you. Im already closing all my accounts. This is the hardest thing. I was doing it, and sneaked at one text where he said he was all for me. I al ready deleted, but i feel broken. hopefully I'll feel better...
todreaminblue Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 thank you. Im already closing all my accounts. This is the hardest thing. I was doing it, and sneaked at one text where he said he was all for me. I al ready deleted, but i feel broken. hopefully I'll feel better... best of luck chloe, its ok to feel broken, validate what you feel,and if you wont validate....i do....... everyone has the right to grieve.......hugs atcha....deb
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