blue_jay_bird Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I'm I the only one that feel's like im sitting in a room of high schoolers that never get out. Has anyone ever gone out in the real world and made friends. Or do they all just sit at their laptop complaining how they aren't good looking enough or alpha enough. I may be the biggest hypocrite, cause im currently wasting my time on the internet. But wouldn't it make more sense to: Join a gym, a skiing group, a reading group...a sports group. Meet people and make friends first. Not, to walk up to hot woman, get turn down, come on to Love Shack and complain about how ugly you are.
animalover Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Oh oh... someone is too bored and need some spanking to get off?
bodhesatva Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I'm I the only one that feel's like im sitting in a room of high schoolers that never get out. Has anyone ever gone out in the real world and made friends. Or do they all just sit at their laptop complaining how they aren't good looking enough or alpha enough. I may be the biggest hypocrite, cause im currently wasting my time on the internet. But wouldn't it make more sense to: Join a gym, a skiing group, a reading group...a sports group. Meet people and make friends first. Not, to walk up to hot woman, get turn down, come on to Love Shack and complain about how ugly you are. Well if you feel this way, then I'm not sure why you're still here. I have to say my typical reaction to "this place is boring/stupid/childish/whatever" is to leave and find something else to do. You know what I think is childish? Saying, "this place stinks!" as you smugly walk out the door. Adults typically just walk out the door and leave other people to their own interests. 5
TaraMaiden Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 It took you 7 months and 370+ posts to tell us that. Worth the wait, thank you for your pearls of wisdom. How's dating going in your world, dearest? 2
mammasita Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Now go forth and be successful - because this, my friends, is the secret.
Author blue_jay_bird Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 Lol, everyone took this so personal. No I don't think "this place is boring/stupid/childish/whatever". Because i have been here for so long. I am no fountain of wisdom, and i didn't want my post to sound smug. I like all of you are trying to figure things out. Im just trying to understand why their are so many posts about why people think that looks are so important?
TaraMaiden Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 because we evaluate a person by the way they look within the first 10 seconds of seeing them. The remainder of the time is to find out whether the personality fits the face. You never get a second chance to make that first impression. People want to look 'their best'. To get the best.
Krieger Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I am too busy to go out and make friends or go to the gym. I work 40 hours a week and go to college full time and sleep what that ? I am too busy pooping on my haters like two girls one cup
Art_Critic Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I'm I the only one that feel's like im sitting in a room of high schoolers that never get out. In some cases you literally are Whenever you put thousands of people from around the world together inside a few forums there are bound to be clashes and we get such a wide variety of people here that it's not hard to see your point of view, that is why the powers to be here have given us the ignore function of your profile and GOD gave us the ignore function of our finger tips. 1
ScreamingTrees Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I doubt that every guy is going after inhumanely nearly-universally physically beautiful perfect 10s and then coming here and giving up after one or two cold approaches.. Doubt it. I don't think that the average girl is ugly, when the majority of girls that I see on a daily basis all seem to be physically thin or thick, with many of them falling somewhere in-between thin and thick and curvy (my ideal) rather than overweight and shapeless, the majority of whom either have fairly big boobs (don't care about boobs but I guess guys do) or ass with nice faces. If the majority of girls are "average", then I'll take that, any day. Some of you must live in in-bred isolated parts of the US south or something..
Author blue_jay_bird Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 I doubt that every guy is going after inhumanely nearly-universally physically beautiful perfect 10s and then coming here and giving up after one or two cold approaches.. Doubt it. I don't think that the average girl is ugly, when the majority of girls that I see on a daily basis all seem to be physically thin or thick, with many of them falling somewhere in-between thin and thick and curvy (my ideal) rather than overweight and shapeless, the majority of whom either have fairly big boobs (don't care about boobs but I guess guys do) or ass with nice faces. If the majority of girls are "average", then I'll take that, any day. Some of you must live in in-bred isolated parts of the US south or something.. But still this whole post is about how someone look, its as if you looking at a shelf and saying...well she does not have to have big boobs. She can't be to thin, or thick. I understand your trying to say... i have to be attracted to her, and my standards are not too high. But no where have i see someone post well i want a girl that is into X, or does X with their time...Or will always be X....ext. I'd like someone to fill in those blanks btw.
todreaminblue Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 It took you 7 months and 370+ posts to tell us that. Worth the wait, thank you for your pearls of wisdom. How's dating going in your world, dearest? lol thanks for the smile.....your dry sense of humor is appealing.....smilin atcha....deb
todreaminblue Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I'm I the only one that feel's like im sitting in a room of high schoolers that never get out. Has anyone ever gone out in the real world and made friends. Or do they all just sit at their laptop complaining how they aren't good looking enough or alpha enough. I may be the biggest hypocrite, cause im currently wasting my time on the internet. But wouldn't it make more sense to: Join a gym, a skiing group, a reading group...a sports group. Meet people and make friends first. Not, to walk up to hot woman, get turn down, come on to Love Shack and complain about how ugly you are. i go to gym nearly every day........i am volunteering to be a fairy god mother in front of elderly people who wont be able to hear what i say, go to church and feed a tribe of people nearly every night when i am not on strike........i come here to unwind sometimes crack a few smiles hopefully and maybe help someone out........sometimes what i have to offer is worth while.....or i wouldnt post....why do you post?
KungFuJoe Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 See, shallow doesn't exist. It's a myth, along with leagues, alpha males, and all the other crap you see passed sround here like the law. There is simply, things you like, and things you don't like. Nothing more, nothing less.
KungFuJoe Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Do you understand why you like the things you like? Are you sure that YOU actually like them? We are all influenced by society's ideals from a very young age. That's why you will notice that both genders tend to "prefer" certain physical and personality traits. So what's shallow and what isn't? Is liking a woman for having big boobs shallow? Is liking someone for their intelligence and character not shallow? Both are god given traits. Neither were "earned".
KungFuJoe Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 What I'm saying is...it doesn't matter why someone likes something. You can't force yourself to like or dislike anything.
Esoteric Elf Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I'm I the only one that feel's like im sitting in a room of high schoolers that never get out. Has anyone ever gone out in the real world and made friends. Or do they all just sit at their laptop complaining how they aren't good looking enough or alpha enough. I may be the biggest hypocrite, cause im currently wasting my time on the internet. But wouldn't it make more sense to: Join a gym, a skiing group, a reading group...a sports group. Meet people and make friends first. Not, to walk up to hot woman, get turn down, come on to Love Shack and complain about how ugly you are. Dude, I just practiced archery this morning and finished a workout minutes ago. Can't I have some internet time??? Pleazz??
miss_jaclynrae Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 I come here to share my knowledge. And to be entertained.
ltjg45 Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Gone out to the real world? Yeah, I do that every day. Not like I have a choice in the matter, mind you. Making friends? There isn't a lot of people worthy of being friends with so stop being delusional. My issue? Too many black females around me. I'm simply not attracted to black females so, scratching them off the list, there is very few women that I'm willing to be attracted to.
Green Light Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Join a gym Why is the internet answer to everything to join a gym? I puke a little in my mouth every time I read that. A little depressed? Join a gym. Feeling lonely? Join a gym. Erectile dysfunction? Join a gym. If our government would only join a gym they could fix our debt problems! I've been to gyms. They are expensive, they smell bad, and people walk around like they are the sh*t when they aren't. Everybody walks around with their "gym face" on looking all serious because they are doing God's work in there! Don't you know that if you join a gym you can live to be at least 150 years old. Oh wait, nobody can do that...
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