shadow15 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Finally having a weekend off from your job and you dont have anyone to hang with lol. I'll tell you what though, this time of my life has been a big change for me. I am learning to just depend on myself for my own enjoyment and to make me a better person, doesnt mean i wouldnt want to go on a date or just a chill night by getting movie and food. Problem is all the women i would want to ask to just hang, i never really talked to them before besides just small talk. Plus i dont wanna sound like a creep and just randomly messenging someone and be like hey you wanna hang lol. I guess i probably shouldnt care what they think though and just go for it, haha. Its been a while since i posted, actually dont visit the site that much anymore, just to read a few topics about what people are going through, but ill admit im finally starting to feel better about everything. 5 months in after bu and i can officially say i can finally go a couple of days without having her cross my mind, and it feels amazing. I just wanted to throw that out there even though this topic isnt about that. Anywho got a question, why is it that i only seem to get the attention of the younger girls? Im only 21 and i tend to get hit on by the 16-18 age group or girls who are my age but already have a boyfriend; and as you can already tell that doesnt work for me lol. I cant stand the immature people my age, much less that age group and im not a girlfriend stealer. Plus theres the fact that those younger girls are not legal yet and well it just bothers me. I guess it has to deal with the fact that i dont look 21, i look either 19 or 20, but it still gets annoying. Hopefully in the next couple of years, once im older the trend will continue and ill then attract the 19-22 age group lol. Has any other guys went through this and what can anyone suggest i can do besides live for right now and make the best out of it.
TaraMaiden Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Trust me - there is barely any difference in looks between 19/20, and 21. I work in a store where we sell cigarettes and liquor, so I'm constantly having to ask young people for ID to prove they're over 18..... And some ID's I've had given to me, have been from people in their mid- to late-20's.... You will barely look any different next year. Date casually, enjoy company for the sake of company, but be a gentleman, and don't take advantage. You'll get there.....
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