Daisyjameson Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 (edited) Im feeling extremely depressed: :(Okay well long story short, guy I was seeing was awful to me, some of the things include taking me to strip clubs,ditching me for his mates,picking at my self confidence,me finding girly items in his room, me paying for a lot of stuff.. talkin to other ladies in my presence, swearing at me randomly(two finger to my face?) some how its a joke to him. Its been up and down for a long time, ive been nothing but nice to him, from the bottom of my heart, including presents, always bieng therefore him. In the time I have known him he has slept with 7 other girls(of course he can as we were not together but why profess he wants me ect?). I tried on previous occasions to severe ties, but i always go back. This valentines I saw him with another girl, and heck I dont get it , i got so upset? Stupid questions ran through my find like will they marry ect, (both of us only 22)?. Ive started NC today..anyone has any words of support or anything that will help me? :)I would fully appreciate it. Edited February 16, 2013 by Daisyjameson
Author Daisyjameson Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 can anyone shed some light please? He has a new gf , i swear im breaking down:(?
jovan Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Oh wow, why would you want something like that back??? I mean fk thats no love, just find some1 who will treat you as you deserve!!!
mammasita Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 You're doing the right thing. He doesn't deserve a millisecond more of your time. Stay strong, block his number, block his Facebook....etc. keep yourself occupied with your friends and family.
Author Daisyjameson Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 Oh wow, why would you want something like that back??? I mean fk thats no love, just find some1 who will treat you as you deserve!!! Thanks for your reply- I have no idea why, but that snot even 1/4 of the horrible things he said and did to me. thank you for your support.
Author Daisyjameson Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 You're doing the right thing. He doesn't deserve a millisecond more of your time. Stay strong, block his number, block his Facebook....etc. keep yourself occupied with your friends and family. Thank you mammasita, Im trying my best from now on, I cant mess up anymore because of him.
Allumere Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 You are lacking in self love and self-esteem. You are acting like a dog. A dog would rather jump on its owner and get scolded as negative attention is better than being ignored...children do the same. Now you are certainly not a dog but the behavior is similar. YOU ARE BETTER ALONE...now say it to yourself....10000 times or however many times until you believe it. Trust me you DO NOT NEED that dudes crap. Look we have all experienced a bit of this and most here are guilty of emotions driving the train and not logic which is all normal and can take some time to sort out. Just step back and ask yourself, if you had a girlfriend in the same boat you are in now, what advice would you give her....now take that advise yourself and move on from the douche.
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