Saxton Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 This sort of thing will have been discussed over and over but... would like some advice on what to do. The other day I decided to try online dating - after a few days looking around sending/receiving the odd message, I clicked with someone. We started talking quite a bit - we made each other laugh and stuff it was really good conversation. She was clearly interested in me and I was her. It was going great. So I gave her my phone number, she sent me a text 10 mins later saying 'I don't normally give my number out but but you seem nice! ... etc etc" back to the conversation. We were now talking via text for a few days. Conversation still great, getting to know each other. So it was valentines day I said.. you know one day we should go for drinks or something? no rush though. Text back oh yeah thats sounds like a nice idea etc etc normal convo still going on then a good night text. I replied. Now ive not heard anything for 2 days. I'm just a bit confused. What do you think?... - As I sent the last message, is it okay to send the next or will I be looking too needy? - If she isn't initiating ... is she not really that interested or is that normal? I'm a little rusty with all this - been a while haha
RebelWithoutACause Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 She's probably talking to other guys from the dating site. You are not her top priority. Just meet her in person, see if there is any chemistry in real life and take it from there.
PhoenixRysing Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I agree, go for the gold and ask her out for a specific time and date. Why not call her? If there is one thing I did learn about OLD, if you don't take it off the screen and into real life quickly then things die on the vine pretty rapidly. Welcome to the wonderful world of dating.
Brunettie Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 she's probably waiting on you to text her.
Author Saxton Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 thanks for the replies - I text her and she replied pretty much straight away! hate that I read into stuff too much when I like someone.
PhoenixRysing Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 thanks for the replies - I text her and she replied pretty much straight away! hate that I read into stuff too much when I like someone. Don't beat yourself up too much for that - I think most of us do the same!
Author Saxton Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 Don't beat yourself up too much for that - I think most of us do the same! haha yeah - only human after all eh!
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