its a lifestyle Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 (edited) Yet I've never had problems getting women, I don't see myself as the mighty powerful CEO leader type with the beautiful wife... To be honest I see myself more as the lowkey employee F'ing the CEO's beautiful wife behind his back. Strange uh? Considering the undateables on this forum seem to think being an "Alpha male" is the key to the vagina... I can't seem to match myself with the characteristics of an Alpha male, I'm not loud and center of attention, I'm not a born mighty leader for example, Yet I can't relate to "Beta" characteristics either... to compare with the stereotype I'd be far too confident in my person and appearance to be considered a "Beta"... any women is a target for me I don't see any of them as out of my league, all women are F'able if you can play it right. What does that make me?? I have a more "cool-esque" approach to life, I consider myself unique with individual characteristics, rather than generalizing myself with a label... And so far in life, whatever it is... it's worked for me. Edited February 16, 2013 by its a lifestyle
blue_jay_bird Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I always thought you may not be Alpha with a larger group. But if you act Alpha on a date you have a better chance of success. It's just a little bit of confidence.
Author its a lifestyle Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 I always thought you may not be Alpha with a larger group. But if you act Alpha on a date you have a better chance of success. It's just a little bit of confidence. I don't act Alpha, or Beta, or anything that I know of... I'm just myself. 1
blue_jay_bird Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I don't act Alpha, or Beta, or anything that I know of... I'm just myself. No one is a extreme that you stated above. It's a scale. Just like sexuality is a scale. You can be closer to one side or the other.
Feelin Frisky Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 (edited) ... What does that make me?? .... omega male? Actually, I think a lot of this is BS. In the wild, the bigger and meaner wins. In society, it's often small guys who change the world. Andrew Carnegy 5-3". Edited February 16, 2013 by Feelin Frisky
blindotter Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 ermahgerd, I'm drowning in cliches. The whole PUA paradigm compartmentalizes both males and females and functions on the assumption that human beings are caricatures who are limited to the roles assigned to them by some invisible peanut gallery (usually consisting of guys who post on PUA boards). I figure the terminology and paradigm are so hugely popular because it's easier to conceptualize a world of black and white where everything can be tucked neatly into a this or that. 'Specially on the ahnternets. 2
Imajerk17 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 (edited) Aren't you special! Here are your cool points. Thanks for sharing. Edited February 16, 2013 by Imajerk17 1
Mrlonelyone Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Op what am I? I am openly bisexual and bigendered. Yet women hang on my words about science and life and the men around are green with envy and resentment over it. Though I am certainly not a standard macho man by any measure, among the students, I am a leader of sorts. Does that make me alpha or beta or omega? These things are not as clear cut and dried as those labels and stereotypes make them out to be. Just be yourself, the right woman for you will just like you and excessive manipulations won't be needed.
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