tootolerant Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 i lived with my ex for 12 years, we had two children together. He was very violent and never bothered with my children and i finally escaped from his clutches 4 years ago. He never made contact with my children again and everything has been fine. I found out last night my son had located his father and both my children spent the day with him yesterday. I really don't know how to deal with this as he is a very manipulative person. I don't want to ever have to see him but more so am worried about the hurt he could cause them.
kellydontwanttasleep Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 if he has a violent history keep the kids away from him.
Author tootolerant Posted August 31, 2004 Author Posted August 31, 2004 problem is my kids are 16 and 15 and have the attitude, he's our dad and if we want to see him we will, i don't want it to cause a problem with us. Now there dad is back on the seen i am worried about him turning them against me plus the damage he could do to them mentally, he would never hurt them physically but there are other ways of doing someone damage
kellydontwanttasleep Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 you'll have to keep an open line of comunication with your kids. kids aren't dumb they'll see it soon enough
Author tootolerant Posted August 31, 2004 Author Posted August 31, 2004 i hope your right, i will keep communication flowing with them, thanks
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