Keddy Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 All this happened on Valentines day I feel so destroyed and broken inside. First time I met her it was so unexpected. She was exactly the type of person I am. She was beautiful and so loving. We fell in love quite quick and the relationship was the most functional and loving one ever. She said I am the best and most understanding to ever entered her life and she does pinky promises to never leave me and say she'd always fight for me. We were even our "first times." She's helped me on my footings many times after I fall. Throughout the relationship I've done some bad, had little affairs even but she'd cry on her knees begging for me to get my senses back and that she cant live without me. I listened to her and treat her way better. I stopped my drinking and smoking addiction for her. I thought we'd get married and live happily together. Not until a few days back. We had the usual arguments and she's saying she has no faith and confidence in the relationship. She never really texted me constantly like how she does. I had to guts to hack into her Facebook and found out she was being convinced by another much older man to leave me because there is no chance left for us. She told the man I asked for another chance and he replied saying "I'd be the stupidest person to tell you to give him another chance." He goes on trying pretty good to destroy my relationship and at the end he told her he likes my girlfriend. But they wont work out because of the age gap and the fact he studies abroad very far away. Yesterday I sen't her back some gifts I was supposed to give before the breakup. She smiled to see me but I broke in tears. I held her hand but it wasn't a convenient place to do so, so she pulled away and said "Not now." She keeps telling me to stop trying and eventually this is me right now, picking up the pieces trying my best to move on, under so much pain, wondering how on Earth could she just forget about our love and what we've done and be SO COLD. I need to know how to move on, I CANT forget her its SO hard!
creighton0123 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I'll repeat what others have told me. No contact and one step at a time. I have found short term planning to help. Setting and reaching short term goals. And reading fun books. And video games. And travelling a different way home or to common places than usual. I also found viewing other profiles on dating sites to be helpful. And bitching about how I feel to friends.
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