NC really works!

[pianomanwoman]

I was going though a break up since July 5, 2011. My boyfriend was too coward to break up with me and married someone else anyway. He tried to reach me during the break up and after, even a year after he married her. He wanted to be friends and I was too sensitive. So finally this week, I made a video and posted it to facebook. He asked to be my facebook friend and I accepted. Big mistake guys. It made me angry more and I lost my cool with him, blaming him for my past. The fact is, he is right. I should have not dated him exclusively or depended on him for happiness. I put too much into it, when I could see was just lame and just using me. His "I love yous" mean nothing now. I feel relieved and moved on so much. I feel sorry for the new girl, but at least I can really see now. Do yourself a favor, if they start playing games, laughing at you and say "I will never marry you" listen to it. Leave right away. And when you do break up, throw away their number. Change your number also even if you have a toaster you have to pick up, or money or kids with them. Show them who is the boss. Get some attitude and move on.

 

Robin

[Daisyjameson]

Ive had the worst time lately, cant get over how awful this man was to me, he swore at me for jokes, he slept with other women, he chipped away my confidence, he ditched me lots for his mates, he was so horrible to me, I cant even put half the stuff down. I really need someone to tell me if i go on atleast 6 month nc i will heal?

[d0620]

This post really helped for where I am right now. I sent him a text to let him know how badly he hurt me and how he made me feel like a piece of trash. I got no response. There is no point in contacting them, they know the damage they caused, and they don't care or else they wouldn't have done it. It's that simple.

 

The last message he sent to me was Lets just move on, I will not be responding anymore, and you know what? He hasn't. He said he wasn't looking for a commitment but I stayed anyway hoping to convince him that I was the one for him, but it looks like he wanted the one who he had to work for and not the one who worked for him. I don't know why I even bothered to reach out to him again. I guess looking for closure.