WBear Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 Okay so I know this girl for a couple years, just casual friends. I always like her. We go to lunch ever once in a while at work. After lunch, she would always say we should hang out. But when I invite her to do things, she either doesn't return my call/email, or agrees and then changes the plan, and when I propose a reschedule she doesn't reply. Then a couple months later we would cross path again, the whole pattern repeats. Last time she proposed we go running together. I unfortunately had to cancel, but when I proposed a new date, she didn't reply to my email or call. To be fair I haven't been very studiously pursuing her, (did that once to someone else and push her away). Still, I'm pretty sure she knows I like her. If she's not interested, why all these "we should definitely hang out"?
uriel Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 Could be she's just being nice when she says that. If she had a crush on you / wanted you much, wouldn't she have been sure to get back in touch? Truth is, she's not feeling it bigtime. If you want to know if she could become interested with further pursuit, you're going to have to be less friendly and more romantic. Ask her out on a real date -- Saturday night: dinner, etc. Yes, it's a risk. But it doesn't sound like you're going to get anywhere without taking one. -- uriel
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