fred sanford Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 My wife....changed in the blink of an eye.....when we moved in together, I worked at a hospital and a movie theater....I still do....her she was a model and worked at a retail store....she quit the retail store and stooped modeling....she has this don't care attitude all over her, even when problems arise in my marriage she just let things sit while I try to speak on it One dat she told me she don't worry much about anything, she let's things fall into place....i tried to reason with her, have u ever played the game of tetris ?? Blocks fall, now those blocks can represent marital problems, financial issues friends and family ect....if u just let things fall into place the game will end quickly, bricks or problems pile up, but the point of tetris is to rearrange the blocks and when u get a solid line it disappears...so with our problems we need to move them so to speak so we have time and room for everything else....that didn't get thru her head....can it get any simpler ??? We kept Arguing and she went back to family to clear her head....I went to visit her yesterday and she says she dnt like her life....she sees other people who have their stuff together and that's what she wants....her problem is she wants it all now....the house the car the career wit very little effort.....I told her u have to start from the bottom.....she applied to several jobs, but got upset and cause no calls back...one day she got a call from a sneakers store and hang up on the person, and told me she wanna work at an airport.......is it just me or is she off her rocker a lil bit....we have other major problems but this is something I need help with.....what's ur opinion ??
Ladybugz Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Why did you not find out all of that before even get into a relationship with her? Its stupid to not talk about stuff like this and think you Can change the person. She have a lot of grow up to do. Maybe she think you work and you are there now So she can take it slow or relax.
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