Zammo25 Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 (edited) I have made great progress this week and yesterday was the end of this madness. The mantra below is something you need to read and take in, move on and make a great life for yourself without them. " Us splitting up was not a big deal for her/him " " Us splitting up was not a big deal for her/him " " Us splitting up was not a big deal for her/him " " Us splitting up was not a big deal for her/him " And repeat as much as is necessary until your Brain takes it in. This says all you need to know and came to me like a flash of inspiration this week. Stay strong and move on. They did not deserve us. Zammo. Edited February 15, 2013 by Zammo25
stevie_23 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 This is good, but... What if us splitting up really WAS a huge big deal for him? Sometimes it is, you know... I think in the cases of it NOT being a big deal, this mantra is excellent as it speaks the harsh but necessary truth in order to move on. However, if it WAS a big deal, then that must also be acknowledged but under the condition that it makes NO difference to the current situation. It still is over, no matter how hard it was.
Author Zammo25 Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 The fact is for her us splitting up barely registered a 1 out of 100 on the give a tossometer. She was the dumper. This is the case.
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