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EASY AS THIS:

Porn: Is it taking away from not only your relationship but your self esteem?

It's cheating. Your partner is cheating you. Thinking of another person, and making a sexual act on it. This is not OK with you but it is for your SO, it's cheating.

 

Strip clubs: Single people, have fun.

People that have SOs they don't care, they like it, more power to ya...

If one person is against it in the relationship, it's cheating... I'm a woman, I asked my SO "if you went to a strip club and got a lap dance or just went to watch naked women waltz around in their skippies, and you came home to me giving a man a lap dance or running around butt *ss, would you think of it as cheating?" Just because it takes place somewhere else dosn't mean it's right. He agreed that I was right.

 

DON'T LOWER YOUR STANDARDS AND JUST "GET USED TO IT" BECAUSE IF YOU TRY TO, YOU'RE GOING TO GO NUTS AND THE RELATIONSHIP'S OVER ANYWAY. DON'T TRY TO CONVINCE YOURSELF THAT YOU'RE CRAZY BECAUSE OTHER PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS! THIS IS OUR LIFE, LIVE IT UP, BE SELFISH WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR STANDARDS. GET WHAT YOU WANT! NO LESS!

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So my gf should break up with me because I watch porn?

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No. Unless whatsername is your gf.

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:laugh:

 

Well Im pleased to say shes not.

:)

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All these women have problems with strip clubs and porn.....I'm simply saying that if it makes you feel insignificant, unpretty, unimportant, unattractive. If he knows this and continues to hurt you by doing somthing that does hurt you, it's cheating. Not CHEATING but it's cheating you out of your relationship.

 

If your SO is cool with it or your SO likes it, "more power to ya" however, for all the females that come on this site with questions reguarding this, I'm just trying to give them a simple answer.

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Originally posted by StillChillinCookie it's cheating. Not CHEATING but it's cheating

 

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You know what I say to the girls who come here with that problem? Join your guy! When me and my gf are together and we watch porn we both think its funny. Someone who worries about this is insecure with themselves.

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If there is no sexual activity occuring, no sex, no making out, no oral or manual, it's not cheating.

 

How can you cheat with a F*CKING VIDEO?!? You think your boyfriends ONLY think about you when they masturbate? Think again. Some may, sure, but majority out there think of other chicks that are NOT YOU.

 

And if you think that's cheating, you have problems, my dear.

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I'm a woman. I view pornography. Sometimes with my SO, sometimes alone. He does the same also. We are comforable with this and we don't consider this cheating.

 

As usual you will find a differnence of opinions on this. What one may consider cheating, another may not. What you would NOT do in front of your SO is most likely unexceptable behavior, but not always cheating. I think a lot of women would rather her man go to a strip club (where he's not able to actually touch the woman) and view pornography - than actually sleeping with someone else.

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It all comes down to how secure you are as a person and sexually.

 

I agree with UCFKevin. And my 0.2's here...Thoughts are thoughts...He/she can think whatever he/she wants to think when masterbating or even having sex.

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